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Equip me with comebacks please!

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WriterofDreams · 28/03/2011 11:54

I'm due to go back to Ireland to visit family with DS next month (he'll be about 16 weeks then). I'm looking forward to it in some respects but I know BFing will be a problem. My sisters were just over for a visit (first time seeing DS) and my older sister kept asking stupid questions about BFing, such as "are you allowed to eat cheese?" which I answered. She also said "I can't believe how often you have to feed him!" about 500 times even though I explained he's going through a growth spurt and doesn't usually need so much. BFing isn't the norm in my family and I know I'm going to get tons of unwanted advice and stupid questions for a whole week. I have a massive (and I mean massive) family so this will be pretty much constant. Sigh.

So are there any stock responses I can give to shut people up? Also please help to boost my confidence for feeding in front of my aunts and uncles. I have about 50 younger cousins and I've never ever seen any of them BFed so as you can imagine I'll be very unusual. I'm even considering switching to formula I'm that worried about it. Help!

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WriterofDreams · 31/03/2011 14:00

Yeah I do actually chip, my younger sister is an absolute star and I know she would do anything to help me. She might not be available all the time but I know if I ask her she'll try to act as a barrier. In fact I'm sure if I brief her beforehand she'll be quite happy to argue out any objections people have - she's quite outspoken but has a lovely manner so rarely offends people. I'd never even thought of enlisting her help but now I think I will! Good idea :)

Your list of comebacks are great architien, I'll definitely use some of them. I think it's important to have answers lined up because otherwise I'll end up justifiying myself constantly and I know that'll really start to get me down. There's one aunt in particular that I'm dreading - she's obsessed with babies and works as a care assistant in a post natal ward so I know she'll absolutely batter me with "advice." I'll definitely need my sister's help when I go to see her!

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