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Paranoia setting in...

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TettyLouBar · 04/03/2011 16:15

I'm having the same paranoia I had with DD1 at this 5-6 week stage. My supply has settled down leaving me no longer with that full feeling and I worry constantly that DD2 isn't getting enough
I know i'm being daft - I went through this last time, but I can't help worrying that she's not getting the right amount?! anyone else have this?

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tiktok · 04/03/2011 16:22

Can you talk to someone about this, Tetty?

Your head is saying one thing - that your baby is fine, your breastmilk is fine, your breasts are fine. So why is this not reassuring for you?

JoinTheDots · 04/03/2011 16:57

I felt like this too, I found it didn't help that all my friends were FF and discussing how many oz their little ones were on, and also how long they were going between feeds.

I on the other hand had no idea how many oz, or how long she would go between feeds, as it was all on demand and still pretty random at 6 weeks.

Just keep reminding yourself that as long as your little one has lots of wet and dirty nappies and is putting on weight, you are doing a great job.

hopingforanother · 04/03/2011 18:01

Yes!!! I have felt the same with both DCs. The first time round it was duelist by bad advice and misinformation and I stopped bf :-(
It is hard to feel confident when you don't see the milk but JTD is right about weight and nappies. When I felt like this I had to keep reminding myself it's normal for your breasts to settle down and feel softer. There's an article on kellymom which I read about four times around the 8 week mark www.kellymom.com/bf/supply/breast-fullness.html

Its a horrible feeling, I remember it well, but I just kept on feeding and Ds kept getting bigger, eventually the feeling faded away.

So you're definitely not alone in the paranoia, I've had it too!

hopingforanother · 04/03/2011 18:03

FUELLED not duelist!

Cosmosis · 04/03/2011 18:25

Take that leap of faith and look for all the signs you KNOW mean she's getting enough; alert, plenty of wet and dirty nappies, good colour, putting on weight :)

TettyLouBar · 04/03/2011 19:04

Thanks for all of your replies. I spoke to a friend about it today and she said exactly the same, that LO is content and feeding well and doesn't appear unsatisfied after feeds, so I needn't worry.
I think it's just an old anxiety that I had with DD1 coming back to haunt me.
I was always worried I was doing something wrong with her and worried I would end up "failing" at breast feeding?!? or having to switch to bottles because of something I had done wrong.
silly, I know. I just wondered whether anyone else went through this? Smile
I know in my head that it's all ok, but when you go from having such firm, hard boobs 24/7 to soft ones, it really feels like someone has just "switched off the milk"

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