I have a little boy coming up for 7 weeks and I have what i recognise as being tubular breasts (dangly things, huge aoreola, big gap between them).
i have managed to mainly breastfeed so far but it has been so so so difficult. he is on my breast pretty much constantly during the day, he falls asleep so i try to put him down somewhere and usually wakes after 10 mins, and then it's straight back to the breast! i do normally get an hour at some point in the day where i get to shower and try to tidy a bit of my bombsite of a home!
i'm worried about his growth. while he has gained everytime he is weighed, he's doing so very slowly. he was born on the 75th centile and is now following under or on the 50th centile. while this may sound fine, his length is on the 98th centile (very tall parents) so surely his weight should be on a higher centile to.
he has the right amount of wet nappies and passes dirty nappies often enough to not be worried if you read the guides.
however, i spend a lot of time looking at his fontelle, which is sunken most of the time, a sign of dehydration.
i have had some time away from him where he has been formula fed (i have never had the opportunity to express and store as he needs it all himself!) and i was able to measure that i was producing just a smidge under an oz per hour. this should be enough to satisfy him for his age according to the side of the aptimil pack. however in the same time i was doing that my other half was having to feed him 50% more in formula to keep him happy.
i too have the problem where he feeds until my breasts are fully empty and then he starts to get upset. when he is inconsolable i end up giving him a 2 oz formula top up, and then he is still hungry so i put him back on the breast where he probably doesnt get anything but at least he has calmed down! i havent yet had to top up more than twice in one day.
as he is gaining slowly and his fontelle is often sunk i wanted to start perhaps giving more in formula just so that he is getting what he needs. he is often whiny when being breastfed but my husband said he was an absolute treasure when he was being formula fed! i just worry about the formula as i dont want my supply to decrease, i just want him to be satisfied! does anyone have any methods of combination feeding which still encourages breast milk production?
a bit of positive for you, i was ABLE to breastfeed exclusively for 2 weeks. i capitalise ABLE as i had to stop for 48 hours early on as i had a CT scan, and even though i only expressed 3 times over this 48 hours (i wasn't aware of the supply/demand thing!) it only took another 24 hours before i was back to breastmilk only. so it can be done! i guess i could exclusively breastfeed now, but i would have quite an upset baby. he's only getting 4oz a day max in formula, some days nothing, but i am finding it hard. also because i need some life too! my husband has been out of work so he's been able to make me lunch and drinks etc while i am glued to the sofa, but he starts a job next week and i fear i may starve if i carry on trying to exclusively breastfeed!
also, an odd thing to add incase anyone else experienced it. i never had any colustrum, or if i did it was white.