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Introducing a bottle to EBF 4 month old

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BR44 · 07/02/2011 14:31

My DS is 4 and a half months old and has been EBF. I enjoy BF and my baby is happy and healthy.

After much deliberation I have decided to introduce one bottle feed a day, not because I feel he needs it or because of any problems with my milk supply, but purely because I feel it's time to encourage a bit more flexibility in our lives. I would like him to be able to take feeds from other people, thus allowing me to be parted from him for more than 3 hours at a time. I'm also going to have to think about going back to work within the next few months, and I don't want the bottle to be an entirely unfamiliar concept to him. All of his other feeds will continue to be from the breast.

I know full well that he is quite old for me to be introducing a bottle feed and was expecting the worst earlier today when I offered him a bottle of Aptamil. I waited until we were getting close to his usual feed time, but didn't wait until he was baying for food. I didn't get any of the writhing and crying I was half-expecting - he studied the bottle, tried to hold it, experimented with the teat in his mouth, had a good lick, but it didn't seem to occur to him that sucking might be an option at all! After about 20 minutes of this he stated getting a bit frustrated and I gave him his usual feed. I used a Tommee Tippee Closer to Nature bottle with a No. 2 teat, but as the milk appeared to be leaking from this teat without any help from my ds I think I'll try downsizing to No. 1 tomorrow and see if this helps.

I know that this is going to take time and patience and am prepared to keep offering a bottle every day until he gets the hang of it (or not, as the case may be). But if any of you have some tried and tested tips for encouraging him to try feeding I'd really appreciate hearing them. Or have I just left it way too late?

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japhrimel · 07/02/2011 14:35

Try using expressed milk, not formula, at least at first so that it's only one new thing.

Does he suck on anything other than boob? Dummy, finger...?

crumpetsolo · 09/02/2011 16:03

How is it going? I am in the same position - 3 1/2 month old DD will play with bottle but sucking doesn't happen. I will need to leave her for a day a week from April so she needs to get the hang of it soon.. Any tips?

MummyBeth · 10/02/2011 13:21

Hi, my DD is 4 mnths and I have introduced a bottle of aptamil for her dreamfeed. She took it no probs so maybe try that as he might get used to it without knowing it.

DD has been given bottles of EBM from an early age though so perhaps that's why she took it.

Who knows though...just when I think I know what's going on it all changes

BR44 · 14/02/2011 09:08

Thanks for your suggestions! Unfortunately, the bottle is still very much an object of interest rather than a source of food.

I think the problem is the bottle itself rather than the content, but if he continues to refuse it during waking hours I may well try the dream feeding - as you say, it might subconsciously get him used to the concept of sucking.

Crumpetsolo - I think all we can do is persevere and hope that they get the hang of it in time...

Ah well, at least he isn't screaming at me and pushing it away, I suppose!

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nymphadora · 14/02/2011 09:43

I'm having this too. Dd3 loves playing with her bottle but it's not a food source. We are using EBM.

AbiAbi · 14/02/2011 12:17

I tried a bottle yesterday for the first time with DS, 12weeks. He also didn't seem to grasp that it was food, so I'll keep trying. Just want to have a bath without constantly worrying I'll have to leap up at any moment to feed him!

ginger2000 · 14/02/2011 13:09

Same here! I want to phase out bf by the time i go back to work after easter but dd2 just doesn't see milk from bottle as food. i really don't want to bf longer than 6 months for all sorts of reasons and am feeling down about it all.

sleepwhenidie · 14/02/2011 13:14

Dream feed is best way to get them used to it ime with 3 reluctant bottle feeders. They don't wake up properly, just suck instinctively. Once they are used to that the transition to awake feeds from a bottle should be easier. I also found that the dream feed was a good one to let someone else do occasionally as it worked well if I wanted an early night (DH can stay up later and do his bit) or to go out, possibly have a few drinks and not rush home to feed.

HTH

ginger2000 · 14/02/2011 13:23

Have tried that sleepwhenidle-she wasn't fooled and it worked her in to a frenzy! might work for you op?

sleepwhenidie · 14/02/2011 14:03

Hi Ginger, you've probably tried it already but could you get someone else to try when you aren't around?

ginger2000 · 14/02/2011 14:12

yep - DH and mum have had various attempts! am hoping that she really 'gets' solids quickly so that I can get loads of milk in her food instead. ~(thanks anyway and sorry for hijack OP)

ceebs05 · 14/02/2011 15:37

My dd (now almost 5 months) never took to the bottle. I ended up giving up and getting a cup ( a TT one suitable from 4 months)- yesterday she had about half a feed from it so can now envisage going out for an evening and not worrying that granny would be stuck with a grumpy hungry baby!

BR44 · 18/02/2011 08:18

Good to know I'm not the only one with a bottle resistant baby.

Someone recommended the sippy cup to me as an alternative to the bottle earlier this week, so I'm going to give that a go.

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