This is an emotional response, not a scientific one, I totally acknowledge, but I having a 'final straw' feeling about this.
My baby is EBF - we started gently offering/allowing some food from 5 and a half months - an approach which is so middle of the road, it just helped me to get hit by traffic coming from both directions. Hardcore BLWs were disappointed with me for 'going early' and using a spoon - others, inc family members raised on different guidelines, kept pestering me to start him on solids from about 3 months on. Have I done the best thing? Who fucking knows.
I've read about vitamin D being prescribed to BF babies in the USA - here in the UK, it's not done. I've read that waiting until 6 months and delaying the introduction of some foods might help prevent allergies - I'm now reading that waiting too long might increase the risk of allergies. I've been told by other BF mums that if I continue to BF and feed no formula, DS will need vitamin drops, but my HV has mentione nothing.
I'm SICK of it all. I'm especially sick of being told to 'read all the evidence and make my own mind up.' Really?? Read ALL the evidence from the global scientific community? And decide for myself the validity of conflicting studies?? I'm an intelligent educated woman, but I don't have a sciences background, and nor do I have the TIME, FFS. I'm self emplyed, working full time, I want GUIDANCE, from these health professionals we're always told to consult at the end of articles.
Sorry, this is a rant, I've just had a bucketful this morning.