3 month old DD2 doesn't sleep in the evenings, never has. She went through a few weeks of sleeping 12 till 7.30, that was great. It didn't last.
She goes down at 11.30 at the earliest, sometimes not till 2am. She wakes up usually between 5 and 6, occasionally earlier, very rarely later.
I so pissed of at not having an evening, she usually just feeds on an off, I try and put her down when she falls asleep but at most she will sleep for an hour once moved, if at all, usually never. Last 3 nights we have actively tried getting her down earlier, from 6, then keeping her upstairs, trying to not get her up this has resulted in either DD2 yelling for 45 minutes in her hammock being bounced or me just stuck the whole night up stairs. This is complicated by the fact that she is fussing at the breast often at the moment, wanting to feed but not able to for whatever reason, I thought it was lack of let down, but it doesn't seem to be exclusively that.
I'm fucked off with having no evening and being up till 1am most nights. I can cope with one. I can't cope with both. I'm really really pissed off with the whole thing. I don't want to stop breastfeeding (though DH would like me too because this is causing so much stress) but honestly, this is pushing me to the limit.
It is 11.30 and she has been awake since 4pm except for the brief half hour she slept in my arms twice, until I had the audacity to try to move her. She is currently yelling on the sofa, refusing to feed and refusing to sleep.
I'm not going to get to bed before midnight :(