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Weaning an older child off the breast: will there come a point when this will be easier to do, or will it just get harder and harder?

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YunoYurbubson · 11/11/2010 06:57

2.7yo ds is breastfed.

It is not a particularly positive thing for either of us. I am SO over it, and he is anxious and wants 'milkies' all day long. Every time I sit down. The whinging drives me mad and at times I really resent having him hanging off my boob.

I do try and set sensible ground rules (breast feeding manners I suppose) but I struggle to keep it up as he is a very strong willed child, is often ill, and I get to the point where it is just easier to give in.

There are some really positive aspects to him still breast feeding too. It is all bad.

Despite not loving it, I think that taking it away from him would be really harsh on him. He is old enough now to understand, question, and complain vociferously. Milkies is his comfort blanket, it is the thing he loves more than anything else in the whole world, and it would take a stronger woman than me to take that away from him.

It often occures to me that it would have been MUCH MUCH easier to wean him off the breast when he was younger. So, my question: in a year from now will I be kicking myself and thinking how much easier it would have been to wean him off at 2.7yo than it is at 3.7yo? OR will there come a point when his understanding and need for breast feeding lessens and it becomes easier to wean him off again?

Did I explain that well enough?

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EnnisDelMar · 15/11/2010 10:10

Good luck Helly. You're going to need it Grin

TrinityTheTwattyRhino · 15/11/2010 10:15

gecko is three and a half and calls it 'booby' in a little voice, no idea why

we recently stopped night feeding cause I was gooing insane through lack of sleep

now its 3 to 5 times a day and she will wait if I say no but you can when....etc

solo · 15/11/2010 12:52

At least it's in a little voice Trinity; Dd shouts out BOOBY!!! Blush

hellymelly · 15/11/2010 22:41

Ennis, I know.DD1 gave up of her own accord,a few weeks before DD2 was born,(she was two and a quarter).Somehow I assumed DD2 would stop happily on her own too.It's not looking very likely is it? Will I have to go down my friend's route and put Stop'n'grow on my nips I wonder?

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