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Expressing Breastmilk, when can you start?

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Hermya321 · 03/11/2010 13:54

Hello,

What it says on the tin really. DS is 10 days old and at some point I would like to start expressing so DH can take one feed in the evening.

I know that there is a bit of a window before six weeks, but at what point is it safe to start offering a bottle of EBM but without the danger of running into nipple confusion?

Thanks

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MumNWLondon · 03/11/2010 14:24

I think ok to express from now for one-off bottle but expressing now for regular bottle not a good idea. Firstly (and mainly) as it would mean you would be going quite a long time without a feed and this could impact on your supply. Secondly your baby might prefer the bottle and reject the breast.

barkfox · 03/11/2010 16:05

I've seen very contradictory info about this hermya (and am just about to add my own here, sorry).

I started expressing and feeding one bottle feed at 10 days. It was fine, and caused us no problems at all. It was a very big help for me to be able to get a break for one feed.

My MW talked about the 'before 6 week window' of opportunity for introducing a bottle (and I'm glad she did, as all I'd heard before that was 'don't do it until several months in, when BF is 'well established' - but there have been quite a few threads on here from mums whose older babies are bottle refusniks, when they are desperate for them to take one or two as they need to go back to work...)

Anyway - the MW said that nipple confusion wasn't likely to arise for a baby feeding well and happily with a good latch, if you were giving one bottle a day. For babies who weren't feeding easily on the breast then it could cause problems, as they don't have to work as hard to get milk from the bottle, and might start fussing or refusing the breast.

MW also said that offering the bottle once a day was a good idea, so they didn't forget how to do it. She warned against trying it once, thinking 'oh, baby can do that fine' and then not trying again for a couple of months, as they won't remember what to do.

As far going a long time without offering a feed from breasts.... well, I guess it depends a bit how often your DC feeds, and whether your supply is okay atm. Even skipping a feed meant I never got to go 'quite a long time' between feeds!

I was advised to pump a little bit at the start and end of each feed, and not to 'go crazy' as it might suddenly send my supply rocketing, and give me engorgement problems. Pumping little and often to start with gave me a couple of ounces to for DP to feed later that evening.

After missing that feed, my boobs were a bit fuller than usual, but frankly DS was feeding so often, I never got to go longer than 3-4 hours without feeding, even if DP gave a bottle feed. If they were very full, I would express a tiny bit before feeding to help DS latch on and make me totally comfy.

So that's my experience. No doubt lots of folk will be along with different experience and advice! I should add that DS never had any latch issues, I never had any supply issues - sometimes he would polish off a bottle of EBM and then switch to breast if he was still peckish. He never had any problems doing that. I think for someone who is having problems BF-ing then the whole 'expressing/bottle feeding' scenario is likely to be harder and might well cause problems.

ClimberChick · 04/11/2010 05:56

well I think barkfox has echoed by thought exactly, so ditto Grin

Only time we had nipple confusion (I think it a bottle preference, they don't forgot, they just prefer the other) was when we pushed it as I away for a day (12hrs) and my mum fed her like people feed formula fed babies.

When she had fussy periods (which is natural and normal) I just held off bottles for a few days - 2 weeks until she was normal again.

Before 6 weeks just express to demand, not to build up a supply (as mentioned above due to supply)

KN1979 · 04/11/2010 10:15

Hi,
I started expressing for the same reason when DS was 6 days old and haven't had any problems at all yet (now 7 weeks) - DH gives him a bottle EBM every night before he goes to bed. I didn't know at the time that it wasn't considered a good idea to do it so early but, as I say, worked fine for us. Sometimes blind ignorance is best Wink

We use Tommee Tippee teats as I was told they're most similar to the real life ones!

notyummy · 04/11/2010 10:21

We started at 3 weeks. DH gave her early evening bottle each night whilst I did other things/relaxed.

No confusion.

We did go through a phase (lasted about a week) at around 12 weeks when all of a sudden she went ballastic when left with DH, but that seemed to be about being left rather than the milk. She screamed at him during bathtime and then didn't want the bottle. We rode it out (I left the house in tears at one point..and poor DH cried too as he felt so rejected) and after about 6 evenings a switch flicked and she was fine.

KN1979 · 04/11/2010 10:21

Oh I also meant to say.... in another complete break with good advice I express the whole lot in one go at 2/3am. Having handed the 10/11ish slot over to DH, I'm huge and engorged by then so I can feed him off one and then express off the other when he's back down. Might sound a bit mental to willingly stay up longer than necessary in the middle of the night but as long as everything's ready before I go to bed it doesn't take long, plus it saves washing and sterilising everything over and over again throughout the day. I get a cup of tea and a bit of chocolate to make it a bit more enjoyable!

Hermya321 · 04/11/2010 18:13

Thanks guys, this is all very very helpful. Grin

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