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We made it to 6 weeks BF and...

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blackcurrants · 13/09/2010 11:40

it has got easier. DS has put on 4lbs in 6 weeks, and grown 3 inches. He's got these gorgeous little chubby knees!
[babymoon emoticon]
Thanks so much to everyone who was around in the first week of August when I was on here all hours of the day and night in a terrible mess.
Your support (plus the lactation consultant, plus getting the tongue tie snipped, plus DH taking over everything else so I could be glued to the sofa and baby) has made it work. I even started back at work last week, (Mon, Wed and Fri) and have been able to send DS to nursery with bottles of EBM and have a stash in the freezer.

The 'where you BF or FF?' thread got me thinking about how little support my mum got when she tried to BF my older brother, and how she then FF her next two kids. I've no idea how long DS and I will BF, I've already had thrush (ouch) and been rendered completely exhausted by 2-day-clusterfeedy growth spurts, but I wanted to get to 6 weeks and in the past 10 days it's got easier. He goes longer between feeds, he takes less time to feed, and he's smiling and gurgling at me, (albeit with very pointed looks at the boob when he wants it) - I feel less like his food source and more like someone he wants to have around. . . so I think we'll keep on going for quite a while. BFing is now the convenient way to feed him (we're out and about a lot), and also a lovely snuggly way to remind myself I'm not a terrible mother for abandoning him, cos he's sooo pleased to latch on when he comes back from the daycare, and we just hang out together all evening.

aah, this got long Blush
Thanks for your support, was what I meant to say. MN can claim a percentage of the credit for me BFing this baby, and probably my subsequent ones. Yay for you all! :)

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Ineedsomesleep · 13/09/2010 12:29

Fantastic. Both times I found the first 6 weeks the hardest.

You are doing a great job Smile

barkfox · 13/09/2010 12:52

blackcurrants, that's a lovely post - hurrah! Huge well done for making to 6 weeks (and counting) - you must be very proud of your happy little porker! Well done too for juggling work/expressing/baby, that really can't be easy. You're doing a fab job there.

whoodoo · 13/09/2010 13:23

well done Grin- BF my first was a really hard business to establish and I always tell people it's the hardest thing I've ever done (they look at me like I'm mad but I'm sure you'll understand). DS2 and DS3 have fed like a dream and I'm an old pro now - sure it will be the same for you with your future babies. Keep going....

blackcurrants · 13/09/2010 19:27

Thanks all! I wasn't posting for the pats-on-the-back, [though it IS bloody hard work, and we all deserve backpats!) so much as to (1) thank the nice people on this section and (2) reassure anyone else currently stuck to a newborn with painful nipples that yes, it does get easier, and all the people telling you that are not part of some breastfeeding conspiracy who just want you to suffer.

It's actually quite nice and settled, now. So, yeah, good luck to you all.

Ok, I clearly need more sleep, I'm getting all sentimental.. I'll be singing kumbayah next! Grin

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Woodlands · 13/09/2010 19:42

awwww! so happy for you blackcurrants! at 8 weeks i also just feel like we've turned a corner - it's great, isn't it.

congratulations and enjoy!

CheckingCheques · 13/09/2010 20:10

Fab story - hoorah for you (and MN and DH etc etc)

Alibabaandthe40nappies · 13/09/2010 21:37

Blackcurrants that is great news :)

I remember posting on some of your threads when your DS was tiny and it's so good to hear you happy with feeding Grin

KristinaM · 13/09/2010 21:39

barkfox said it so well

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