Rightly so my eldest, 2and a half, demands my attention, but.....am bf her sister, now aged 5 weeks. I fed dd1 for 10 months, easing off at weaning, combined feeding from 6months then formula from 10. This time I'm struggling, I'm more tired as can't sleep in day as toddler doesn't often nap lately although could do with it! Not much family help day to day, amazing parents but only a week every 6or so as they are far away, lots mummy friends but I'm first to have second child, good bf support group locally.....so why am I struggling?! Keep looking at the bottles in cupboard thinking just do one for bed to get more zzzzz! But chicken out in case I feel too guilty. My toddler is potty trained but at her age still needs help with clothes etc, she's adjusting well but between the time spent bf, housework and nappies how do you keep toddler entertained.? She is v good at play and does good imaginative/role play but I feel so torn when she asks for help/company and I'm sat yet again with the boobs out, starting to really get to me! Would the odd bottle help this? Is it too soon/late to try and also is it normal for baby to so clearly prefer/be more settled on one boob than the other? It's proving to be a very diff experience this time around, advice please?! Xxx