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How do I keep up with demand? Please

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DelGirl · 24/08/2005 19:44

DD is 18 weeks and is mainly breastfed, apart from the odd bottle of formula or ebm here and there. She has been sleeping through from 7ish until about 5.30 for about 7 weeks now, with the odd night waking a bit earlier but then she feeds for 10 mins and usually goes back until at least 7 or 8am.

During the day she mostly feeds 2 hourly. Sometimes she'll go longer, at other times less. But, she does tend to cluster feed between 5 and 7.

I think I may answer my own question here but would still be grateful for some input. The past few days, I can't seem to keep up with demand around bed time, I really don't think the milk is there. The last 2 nights, she has fed from both sides and then had 4oz of formula on top of that and still woke up at 3am.

I did join slimming world last week and i'm sure I'm eating enough because i'm not going hungry. You can have lots of extra's like cheese etc when you're bf. However, I have been having a lot of late nights recently (mn is mainly to blame) and I know i'm not drinking enough.

Could these 2 factors really affect my milk that much? I really don't want to give up. It took me ages to get the hang of it and now I have I don't intend to give up easily. Would it help if I express at night and use that as a top up the next night. It will keep that long won't it in the fridge. What I mean is, I don't really want to give that much formula as I kind of feel/want that i'm enough iyswim, at least until she starts weaning.

Thanks for reading this far

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aloha · 24/08/2005 20:50

What's the problem? She is doing really well. My dd is six months old and still wakes once a night most nights. I just don't see a problem here - and my dd still feeds for ages in the evening - up to two hours on and off. But as I'm watching Property Ladder repeats and having a glass of wine, I don't mind that much. Top up with formula if you want, but afaik, many babies will suck down formula just because they are sucky and formula is different, not because they are starving.

aloha · 24/08/2005 20:52

BTW I never drink water - well, I do sometimes, but hardly ever. Don't like it. I drink tea, decaff coffee, wine and juice and not enough of any of it except wine
DD is thriving so I must be doing something right!

lockets · 24/08/2005 21:02

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chipmonkey · 24/08/2005 21:17

Delgirl, your dd sounds fine to me! I wouldn't give formula as it won't help your supply and tends to dent your confidence as they will invariably drink it! Also wouldn't give solids yet either as they will fill the tummy but have no nutritional value. As Aloha says, just accept that you and dd will have to have a bit of TV time for a little while each evening and yes, the odd glass of cabernet Sauvignon doesn't go astray either!

DelGirl · 24/08/2005 22:56

sorry, my original post wasn't meant to sound as if i'm peeved with her cluster feeding or that she's waking in the night, far from it. I think she's great to sleep as long as she does and i'm really happy that she normally wakes only once and then goes back down. I know i'm very lucky. It's just that normally she settles really well and quite quickly when she goes down at 7. It will usually take about 5 or 10 mins and I know from her cry whether she will settle or not and the last couple of nights she hasn't until I've fed her some more. Hence my earlier post. Thanks again for the advice though. I shall just make sure I drink more and yes, I do have the odd glass of Merlot myself . All the blurb at the beginning was just to give people background really. At the end of this, i'm now typing 2000 words per minute lol!

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Mojomummy · 25/08/2005 09:35

I think it's just a growth spurt - from personal experience I found a nutritious snack & keeping well hydrated helped

Actually I used to enjoy those couple of hours, had the remote control, maybe a magazine to hand. And because I was 'busy' hubby made the tea .

Also good to remember your DD is most likely really enjoying this little time together. We didn't wean until almost 6 mths & when we did, this little ritual disappeared more or less, enjoy it while it lasts !

BTW her digestive system isn't developed enough to digest food yet - that's why the recommendation is to wait until 6 mths.

DelGirl · 25/08/2005 10:34

thanks mojomummy. tbh I have no intention of weaning until 6 months, never have. She slept through until 6.15 this morning and then again until 9ish. I did feel a bit fuller this morning. I never actually feel uncomfortable though. I drank far more last night, maybe that has helped already.

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aloha · 25/08/2005 10:36

It's probably just a phase. Sounds so trite, but so many things are just phases. My dd was asleep by 8.20 last night and dh and I did a jig of joy round the kitchen and opened a bottle of cava in celebration!

DelGirl · 25/08/2005 10:42

lol

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Mojomummy · 25/08/2005 11:07

Delgirl - I read you weren't keen to wean - just added that to back up your intentions
When I used to get DD weighed the HV would say, well you can start weaning her now ( do I really think a bit of rice would make her gain weight ?!) & I'd say, well prefer to wait through gritted teeth - not sure why everyone is so keen to move on to the next stage. Sounds like you're doing a grand job anyway

qsack · 25/08/2005 13:47

haven't read all the posts and this probably just re-affirms all the other comments. for me water consumption and lots of it is the best thing for keeping your milk supply up. i carry a drinking bottle with me all the time and use it at home too, it also helps as i can monitor how much i'm drinking. if i have a day when i don't drink that much i notice a real change in my supply by the afternoon. i don't rest in the day as a rule but i know when i do that i wake up with pretty full breasts. with water try and drink as much as you can handle as soon as you get up in the morning. at least one litre. once you're de-hydrated (i.e when you get thirsty) it's very hard to catch up.

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