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Infant feeding

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Any midwives/bf counsellors able to tell me...

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NumptyMum · 26/07/2010 14:20

do some babies just have a ridiculously strong 'suck'? I fed DS for over 2yrs, it was painful to start with but got better. DD is just 4wo but again it has been v painful. DH thinks her suck is stronger than that of DS (and he was strong)... could this be why? She's a chomper, really clamps down on the breast when she feeds. I've just resorted to buying an electric pump as there are some feeds I just can't contemplate latching her on - and I'm also now considering cranial osteotherapy (for her, not me - though come to think of it I'd probably benefit too...).

So - is it just that her suck is v strong? Does that ever happen? I have to add that her neck control is something else too - she holds her head upright, lunges towards my breast, won't let me guide her when latching on...

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TruthSweet · 26/07/2010 15:03

Not a bf counselor but a peer supporter so not so well trained or experienced . Nevertheless here's my tuppence .

Have you thought about trying 'Biological Nurturing' this is a way of breastfeeding that allows the baby to use it's own innate reflexes to latch on to mum by themselves. This might solve the 'guiding' issues you are experiencing. I saw Dr Suzanne Colson speak on Biological Nurturing and she is very inspirational. She is a Midwife how also has a PHD in the mechanisms of biological nurturing.

I'm not sure about strong suckling so I won't venture any advice on that but I just wondered (as you do?!) what your nipples look like after a feed? Are they 'lipstick' shaped or blanched/whitened or bleeding? Or do they look the same as before a feed?

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