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4 day old baby, desperate sleep deprived mum - advice help!

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fifitot · 15/07/2010 12:19

I thought I might know what I was doing 2nd time around but no........

Baby born 4 days ago, my milk now in. He is feeding constantly but will not sleep between times. I have had about 3 hours sleep in total since Monday and was so bad in early hours last night was almost hallucinating!

He is feeding, taking the milk, coming off the breast but as soon as I put him down he wakes up again, rooting for nipple. He would sleep on me but that's not option and tbh even though not keen, tried to get him to sleep in my bed last night but still wouldn't.

He just seems to want a nipple in his mouth all the time. Stupidly I gave him a dummy on Tues, just for respite but this hasn't worked as soon as he spits it out, he wakes up and cried. He hasn't slept much at all and nor have I.

I am exhausted and not sure what to do. I don't mind waking up every couple of hours at night which was what I was prepared for after my first baby but I can't cope with NO sleep between feeds.

Is this a growth spurt so early? Or is he just stimulating the milk?

Please, any advice......am losing the plot!

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Jojay · 17/07/2010 14:15

These swaddling blankets are fantastic for babies like this.

DS2 was similar to yours but fed much better in one of these and if he fell asleep on the boob I could actually put him down without him waking - a revelation!

PLEASE beg borrow or (maybe not) steal one - they are worth every penny!

BettyButterknife · 17/07/2010 14:19

Was also going to suggest a hammock if your DS won't settle without a cuddle.

Really feel for you - I'm 40+2 and dreading the sleep deprivation!

Hope things improve soon.

JackieNo · 17/07/2010 14:28

The BF clinic I used with DD (ages ago now!) used to suggest using a cot-sized flat sheet to swaddle the baby with, to keep their arms out of the way, in case you don't have a chance to buy something specifically designed for it.

fifitot · 18/07/2010 10:20

I don't know what he's up to now! Still awake and fussy all night despite latch now good. Not draining the breast so not getting full. I seem to have got all the positioning right but breasts still quite full at the end of a feed.

I may have to post a new thread about this - very confusing.

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