So here’s the thing, my mother is very negative toxic and controlling and has controlled my life for a long time I’m 28 years of age and I have to ask her permission if I can meet a friend she follows me every where and when I ask her nicely to stay home she shouts and swears sometimes screams and calls me names. She basically tells me who I can and can’t be friends she controlled all my relationships I can’t go to the shops without her coming when I meet up with men she comes with me and she always says negative stuff like how she don’t like them there dodgy ect she don’t like me having friends because if I make new friends and they ask me to go for a coffee or to go there’s she says this person is fake don’t trust them then she always talks her self into coming with me and I have to say I brought my mom is that okay but deep down I don’t want her there people have said why are you always with your mom why does she have to come with you she literally follows me every where. if I say to her I’m going for a walk by myself she tries to talk me out of it then she says I’m coming when I tell her please stay home she kicks off threatens to kick me out knowing I have no where to go I have lost so many friends because of her my boyfriends in the past haven’t even told me it’s over they basically changed there number because of my mother being to much meeting me and constantly phoning me when I’m with them . Due to all this I suffer with depression and anxiety and don't think I am good enough for any one. I am finally doing something about moving out she’s the only family I have unfortunately as my dad died when I was young and don’t speak to his family and they don’t like her either they say she’s mental and my mother has no family as there not in England I think that’s the reason why I didn’t move out sooner because I am scared of being alone and I have so much fear she was all I had but so many people have seen the way she controls my life and I finally pushed myself into finally doing something about it by moving out I have to make this step for myself and well being because I will go no where in life because she controls what jobs I have ect. When I move out I am not sure to keep the relationship with her because apart of me wants to cut her off permanently all her friends have because they said she’s to much. Even though she’s my only family i just need to cut the negativity out my life for good.