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English boarding school recommendations for American 6th former

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BeLemonSwan · 12/02/2025 14:30

My daughter (currently in 10th grade in America) has had a determined interest in boarding school for the past 2 years. She wishes to attend university in the UK, which is fairly difficult to apply for from her school; she currently attends at "elite" private school in the Washington, D.C. area, though that probably matters little in the UK. Also, given the US's current political climate, perhaps it will be safer for her to finish her education overseas.

However, we're aware that basically all schools have already sent out decisions and filled their rosters for this year. Do you know of any high quality schools where my daughter could apply right now ands potentially be accepted to start 6th form in the fall?

If it helps in the slightest, she has two grandparents who matriculated out of Oxford uni.

OP posts:
teenagersandatoddler · 12/02/2025 14:37

Depending on what you are looking for:

Hurst College
Seaford College
Roedean
Cheltenham Ladies
Wycombe Abbey

Words · 12/02/2025 14:39

Cheltenham

LIZS · 12/02/2025 14:43

What are your main criteria? Coed or single sex, full boarding, how academic- IB, Alevels? what sport preferences, extracurriculars, access to airport, city, town or rural? Do you have a guardian in uk or need to purchase a service?

Donostiera · 12/02/2025 14:48

No idea if they have places available but I highly recommend Oundle school. It's in a small town, not a city. Co-ed. Quite academic but not OTT. Sporty but not OTT. The kids seem to come out as lovely people by and large.https://www.oundleschool.org.uk

BeLemonSwan · 12/02/2025 14:50

LIZS · 12/02/2025 14:43

What are your main criteria? Coed or single sex, full boarding, how academic- IB, Alevels? what sport preferences, extracurriculars, access to airport, city, town or rural? Do you have a guardian in uk or need to purchase a service?

Edited

She currently attends an all-girls school, but wouldn't mind co-ed either. Full boarding. She figure skates competitively, full time, but I doubt she would be able continue that. Otherwise she can run, maybe play field hockey, or dance. Academics are very important to her, A levels or IB could both work. No guardians in UK.

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LIZS · 12/02/2025 14:51

Would suggest Sevenoaks if IB coed an option or Brighton College for more traditional. Both competitive though.

LIZS · 12/02/2025 14:53

Hurtwood House is a sixth form only, with focus on performing arts but also strong academics.

MummyPigRules · 12/02/2025 14:53

My DD is at Wycombe Abbey and has friends who figure skate competitively - they get up at 5am for training (😬) so it can be accommodated

Bloodybrambles · 12/02/2025 14:55

BeLemonSwan · 12/02/2025 14:50

She currently attends an all-girls school, but wouldn't mind co-ed either. Full boarding. She figure skates competitively, full time, but I doubt she would be able continue that. Otherwise she can run, maybe play field hockey, or dance. Academics are very important to her, A levels or IB could both work. No guardians in UK.

What’s her dream school look like?

Something in a city? Rural in a stately home? Traditional? Large or small? Lots of routine or more freedom?

LaPalmaLlama · 12/02/2025 15:15

However, we're aware that basically all schools have already sent out decisions and filled their rosters for this year.

Is that based on their websites or what admissions have told you directly because in the current climate I'd be very very surprised if any but the most popular schools are 100% full for L6 this September so if you haven't contacted admissions directly by email I would definitely do so, despite what their official timelines tell you. VAT on school fees and boarding just generally becoming less popular amongst UK based parents means that some v good schools often have at least a few boarding places unfilled.

Now for the cold water.....with the exception of a few schools which would meet your academic criteria (Oundle, Marlborough), there are very few full boarding schools left, by which I mean schools that mandate students remain in school at weekends other than exeats or holidays. There are many schools which call themselves full boarding which effectively empty out between the end of matches on Saturday afternoons and Sunday evening, or, in cases, Monday morning. Admissions will be less than transparent where this is the case so you really need to do your homework unless your DD would be happy to have some downtime on Sundays with fewer students around (some students do), particualrly as she wouldn't have the option to go out herself. However, here are some pointers/ red lines if you want a school with good numbers in over the weekend:

  • Pick a school where boarders are a significant majority
  • Pick a school that has mandatory Saturday school - i.e. lessons on Saturday mornings, not just ECAs.
  • If they provide London/ station buses at weekends, that's an indicator that there's an exodus.
  • Generally schools v close/ commutable to London clear out more than more remote ones.

I would definitely look at Oundle. I think that would most closely fit your requirements other than the figure skating. Marlborough another possibility but likely is actually full for September (the Kate factor:-))

Also think about exeats- these are "long" weekends (actually just a normal one without Saturday school) but not long enough to go back to the US so she'd need a paid guardian service- these are families which host students whose parents live overseas and who dont have family or friends they can spend exeats with.

VanCleefArpels · 12/02/2025 15:18

LIZS · 12/02/2025 14:53

Hurtwood House is a sixth form only, with focus on performing arts but also strong academics.

I came on to suggest Hurtwood - lots of international students, solid academics and lots of other stuff going on (including dance which OP mentions). It is however THE most expensive school in the country bar none - £21,700 per term boarding plus 15% surcharge for overseas students

Donostiera · 12/02/2025 15:48

LaPalmaLlama · 12/02/2025 15:15

However, we're aware that basically all schools have already sent out decisions and filled their rosters for this year.

Is that based on their websites or what admissions have told you directly because in the current climate I'd be very very surprised if any but the most popular schools are 100% full for L6 this September so if you haven't contacted admissions directly by email I would definitely do so, despite what their official timelines tell you. VAT on school fees and boarding just generally becoming less popular amongst UK based parents means that some v good schools often have at least a few boarding places unfilled.

Now for the cold water.....with the exception of a few schools which would meet your academic criteria (Oundle, Marlborough), there are very few full boarding schools left, by which I mean schools that mandate students remain in school at weekends other than exeats or holidays. There are many schools which call themselves full boarding which effectively empty out between the end of matches on Saturday afternoons and Sunday evening, or, in cases, Monday morning. Admissions will be less than transparent where this is the case so you really need to do your homework unless your DD would be happy to have some downtime on Sundays with fewer students around (some students do), particualrly as she wouldn't have the option to go out herself. However, here are some pointers/ red lines if you want a school with good numbers in over the weekend:

  • Pick a school where boarders are a significant majority
  • Pick a school that has mandatory Saturday school - i.e. lessons on Saturday mornings, not just ECAs.
  • If they provide London/ station buses at weekends, that's an indicator that there's an exodus.
  • Generally schools v close/ commutable to London clear out more than more remote ones.

I would definitely look at Oundle. I think that would most closely fit your requirements other than the figure skating. Marlborough another possibility but likely is actually full for September (the Kate factor:-))

Also think about exeats- these are "long" weekends (actually just a normal one without Saturday school) but not long enough to go back to the US so she'd need a paid guardian service- these are families which host students whose parents live overseas and who dont have family or friends they can spend exeats with.

I can vouch for Oundle being a 'proper' boarding school. My daughter is a day pupil and very much in the minority. School runs (with sport) till 4pm on Saturday. The school get a bit arsey if I refuse to take her in for, say, an event on Sunday evening ...

Londonmummy66 · 12/02/2025 16:25

Christ's Hospital is fairly near Gatwick (has its own railway station on the Gatwick line so easy to get there). It is pretty strict about full boarding - you need a very good reason to leave on a non-exeat weekend. They are pretty sporty and have some very bright pupils and get good leavers destinations each year. They have recently stopped going the IB so it is A levels only now depending on what you were looking for. Facilities are great - its site is about 800 acres and they offer a wide range of extra curriculas. However your daughter may not like the school uniform (although most love it once they put it on as it hides a multitude of sins (including your PJs...)

eurochick · 12/02/2025 16:37

If she has images of boarding school in the uk being like Hogwarts then Christ's Hospital is probably the closest she will get.

purpleleotard2 · 12/02/2025 16:40

Abbotsholme
Was a bit quirky more main stream now

mitogoshigg · 12/02/2025 17:23

Definitely worth calling around because they do loose students at sixth form, plus with changes to vat parents could be reconsidering their placements. My dd boarded at 6th form, unfortunately it's since shut but loved the experience.

If ice skating is important look at schools within an hour of Nottingham as that's got an excellent rink with top coaches

boysmuminherts · 12/02/2025 17:35

How about Haileybury? (tes boarding school of the year 2024)

DemonicCaveMaggot · 12/02/2025 17:36

My DC went through the American education system in Alabama and are now at a Russell Group university in the UK studying science based subjects.

One of them had APUSH, Economics AP, and Chemistry AP at a grade 5
The other had APUSH and Economics AP at a grade 5.

They were fortunate in being in a program where high school classes were replaced with classes at the local campus of the university of Alabama so they graduated high school with 60 college credits each. They went to slightly higher than A level standard in math, chemistry, and biology so they were able to cope academically in the UK.

If boarding school doesn't work out it would be a good idea to contact the admissions departments of UK universities to see what they expect from a US applicant. I think three APs may be enough but do check.

CurlyTop1980 · 12/02/2025 19:51

ACS Cobham.
Ice skating can continue at Guildford they have a competitive team.

You can use professional guardians.

Good luck.

leftandaright · 12/02/2025 20:03

with no uk family the most important criteria is mandatory full boarding with only fixed exeats allowed. That will knock out 90% of schools mentioned on this thread. She will be miserable if she goes to any school that allows any kind of Saturday night trips home as she will be one of a handful left in.
the proper full boarding schools, eg Oundle or Marlborough tend to be academic and all rounder top notch schools. You’d be hard pressed to pick a proper full boarding school that didn’t suit your daughter by the sounds of things BUT technically they may be full up for this sept …. But you always get a few who pull out with the jitters of leaving home so get on the phone to the person in charge of admissions. Not the assistant or anyone else but the decision maker. Get her on a cancellation list and try and gauge how likely it is a place will open up. You are also going to need to visit these schools.
if she’s academic and wanting the boarding experience then I do not recommend perusing ice skating as it’s solitary and will take her away from integrating. Any school she joins will have a house full of girls who have been fast friends for three years. There will be a few sixth form joiners but it’s imperative she gets stuck in - and being whisked off for ice skating somewhere will massively inhibit how she integrates so unless she’s hell bent on doing the Olympics , forget the ice skates! There is more than enough for her to be doing in normal school life without trying to shoe horn in a solitary external sport.
schools to try are Oundle, Marlborough, Rugby and Uppingham. There’s probably two or three others to consider but not many more that are full boarding and genuinely academic. All mixed sex proper full boarding schools. All considered academic (Uppingham marginally less so but not noticeably) . All of them great schools. I have children at Oundle but friends with children at all 4. Struggle to say a bad word about any of them. Just get on the phone! They won’t care where grandparents went to uni. They will want to know she wants to board and even better she’s already boarding, that she academic, that she enjoys extra curriculars and she wants to go to their school. For Oundle you need to speak to Johnny Hammond-Chambers. He deals with admissions. Lovely chap.
you will need to contract with a uk guardian to take her in at exeats and be a uk emergency contact . Any proper full boarding school can give you a list of people who can fulfil that role . She will fly home at half term and holidays. Oundle has several that come from the USA (and many other countries - about a quarter of boarders do not live in the uk) . Oundle has one exeat end of Sept and one in November. One in January. So that’s 3 weekends she will need somewhere to go,
if not invited back with a friend. The three half terms she would fly home (two weeks in October, 1 week in Feb and 1 week in May). Plus the three main holidays of course.

but remember nearly all uk boarding schools advertise themselves as full boarding but have flexible policies about weekends and schools will try and deny this especially if they have spaces to fill . Do not choose any of these schools that allow discretionary weekend trips home as your daughter will be stranded. Choose a school that confirms children only may only go home for a maximum of 4 or 5 weekends a year excluding half terms and main holidays.

leftandaright · 12/02/2025 20:04

boysmuminherts · 12/02/2025 17:35

How about Haileybury? (tes boarding school of the year 2024)

No good. Plenty go home at weekends. It’s not a bonafide full boarding school - nice though it is (if you board and live nearby!)

CaveMum · 12/02/2025 20:09

If she wants “Hogwarts-esque” take a look at King’s Ely. About an hour and a half from London on the train but they can also help with airport pickups.

It’s a very sporty school, plus strong arts, and the academics are very good, though admittedly not as strong as some other private schools in the area. Still above average and improving every year.

https://www.kingsely.org/sixth-form

Sixth Form

King’s Ely Sixth Form, a leading independent Sixth Form school for girls and boys aged 16-18 in Cambridgeshire

https://www.kingsely.org/sixth-form

Hoppingabout · 12/02/2025 20:22

eurochick · 12/02/2025 16:37

If she has images of boarding school in the uk being like Hogwarts then Christ's Hospital is probably the closest she will get.

Or Fettes College which was what Hogwarts was modeled on. But that's in Edinburgh so not English. Although it does do the IB as well as Alevels.

Pallisers · 12/02/2025 20:32

I'd worry about the switch from the US system to UK A levels - it is quite different.

Has she looked at New England boarding schools - Concord Academy, Middlesex, Philips Andover, Philips Exeter, Deerfield, Northfield Mounthampton for example.

My kids went to three different private high schools in the US and each year sent kids to UK universities. college fairs would include representatives from UK and Irish universities pitching.

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