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My sister is evil

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Mabris · 20/02/2024 22:09

I hope I do not make this long.
My sister moved in with me about 15 years ago and lived forv4 and a half years. During that time, she made no contributions towards my mortgage or bills as I encouraged her to save for a deposit for her own place. Unfortunately, she just squandered all the monies she earned on nights out and partying. She's 10byears older than myself actually. One day she got so drunk, insulted me and physically attacked me in my house, calling me cursed that I'd given birth to a disabled child. That was the final straw. Fast forward a few months, she was kicked out of my house and I didn't speak to her for months! I can't remember how I finally started talking to her again. Anyway, over the years, we maintained an amicable relationship until recently, she insulted me during an argument that I have mental health issues.

I am mentally exhausted by dealing with these arguments with her. AIBU to cut off all contact with her for good? Anyone ever done this to a sibling? And how do they feel fast forward a few years?

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VincentVanGoth · 20/02/2024 22:12

You owe her nothing. Just because she’s your sister that doesn't mean you have to put up with such nastiness. I would never speak to anyone who attacked me again.

DeeCeeCherry · 21/02/2024 04:10

Look after yourself. Put yourself first. My sister is extremely toxic. After years of putting up with her one day I just thought - no more. & that was it. The peace I feel without her in my life is lovely. I don't feel hate. Just happier at not having to co-exist with her. It's been just over 5 years now.

Your sister is violent. She's a danger to you. You'd be better off cutting ties.

GreyBeeplus3 · 28/01/2026 16:10

Mabris
This reminds me of my parents who only married because I was on the way Then when brother was born couple of years later due to german measles he had no speech/hearing
I got the blame because if I hadn't been born then neither would he have been so it was MY fault
Left home as soon as I could
Mother died sometime later
Brother and two other sisters were deserted by father straight after funeral
You owe her nothing
Shitty blood is not thicker than water
Am new to this section here,
But sending you wishes that the odds worked in your favour XXX

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