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Common racist comments you hear in 2023?

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SleepDreamThinkHuge · 28/04/2023 06:48

Compared to 30 years ago, how is racism different today?

For me, racism terms such as the n word p word are less used than they were 30 years ago. However, people have looked at other avenues. See comments below.

  1. "You have a chip over your shoulder" every time someone mentions racism or their lived experience it goes straight to denial mode. You are blamed for your lived experiences and told to get over it and how UK is not racist.

  2. "The UK abolished slavery. slavery was a long time ago." Every time someone tries to put forward a view of reparations of people who are still suffering from the effects of slavery they are shut down. "that was a long time ago we have changed and evolved."

  3. "I feel like a foreigner in my own country." Which is probably one of the most stupid statements considering that over 80 percent of the population is white. I always answer if you feel like a foreigner how do minorities feel?

  4. "name the racists" commonly said for Megan Markle that she should name the racists she claimed in the Royal family. But lets be honest if you did that the other person in whatever circumstance would just deny it and ultimately you will not be believed and be called someone who plays the race card and tarnishing other people's careers.

  5. "Why do black people have their own spaces if white people had it we would be accused of racism" This is commonly said by the same people who are not as vocal when other groups have their own space e.g. women, LGBT groups etc.. It just seems like whenever black people have their own space people have to put them down. Take Ngozi Fulani the media made it seem she was the bad person people argued why her charity helps black people suffering from domestic abuse. Sad how she was forced out Sistah Space due to the abuse she faced but the media never mention that and the racism she had to face.

  6. "Racism exists in all communities" this is another common one used and is a whataboutery technique. We have seen this with people like Kanye, KSI recently but what people forget there was a lot of criticism from the black community with their actions. So to suggest the black community or any other community does not do anything about racism is for the birds.

  7. "My best friend is black" This is something you would hear from the EDL or Britain First. But you would be surprised how often you hear this by a lot of people. Just because your friend or relative is black, Muslim, Asian etc does not mean you cannot be racist. Even if you are a white mother and your child is mixed race does not mean you cannot be racist. It is baffling how a lot of people seem to forget this and think that my saying I cannot be racist because of this automatically means they cannot.

LilyMumsnet · 25/05/2023 09:03

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ImaniMumsnet · 10/09/2023 16:22

Hi all

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YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 12/09/2023 12:32

Hi all. Thanks for your comments.

We really don’t want racist views or racists on Mumsnet. Our policy has always been to delete racist posts and ban any posters who are repeat offenders. We acknowledge our moderation isn’t perfect (on a site as large as Mumsnet we’re always liable to miss things) but our intention is always to remove any kind of hate speech and we think we stand up well to some larger sites - the outright hate we’ve seen on other platforms wouldn’t be up for more than a couple of minutes on Mumsnet.

@PinotGroggio we mailed you as we would any poster who has had several posts removed for breaking guidelines. Personal attacks are not allowed on the site and you’ve had half a dozen posts deleted for this reason in the last year or so. We generally mail posters to remind them to stick within our guidelines, rather than just suspend them without warning, which we consider to be a fair approach. We also think it’s unacceptable to suggest our mods are ‘in thrall to white women’. As we say in our T&Cs, attacks on our mod team, who are doing their darndest to keep things civil and implement our guidelines, are not really on, so please do bear that in mind.

Opinion on what constitutes hate speech isn’t always unanimous but we understand that black women recognise systemic and insidious racism where others may not and because of this we always listen carefully to what you’re telling us. It’s clear many of you think some posters are frequently crossing this line. Please do let us know if you believe this is the case by emailing us or reporting a post. We can look for patterns in a poster’s history and it’s usually quickly apparent if someone has a specific agenda for a dog whistle.

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