Around 8 or 9 years ago, I went to a talk of hers in London. I'm never good at remembering actual words verbatim (really in awe of all t hose of you who can just reel off sections of speeches!) But I left just feeling a sense of euphoria, such validation, just 'yeah!!!'.
And I do remember something she said. She said 'there are many white women who just want to become their brothers and fathers'. And that really struck me, and I believed it to be true. Not only of white women, but lots of people who say they want equality, when actually they just want to reorder who is at the top.
bell hooks was about radical change. About the world being different, not more of the same. Most of what I hear today about us inching towards equal pay, inching towards equal representation in politics, inching towards fair treatment of our children in schools, or our treatment in maternal care.
Not for bell hooks. A true radical, which is actually the only way. I never understood people who said 'I'm feminist (or whatever you might like to call yourself if that isn't the term for you) but I'm not radical'. How is that possible, then?
RIP bell hooks.