I would like to speak as a woman who was impacted by these kinds of messages in my younger years.
My contemporaries are Beyonce, Ashanti, Alicia Keys, Britney Spears as I'm early 80s born. I think Lil Kim is a little older than me, not by much, but in the way that matters when one is a 17 year old girl listening to a 23 year old woman rapping about sex.
I think the lyrics impacted me. That kind of female empowerment was 'we don't need men', 'men aint shit without a car' 'no scrubs' etc. It was helpful at the time, I really thought I didn't need men and as such I avoided some pretty awful men and relationships with them. I think I missed out on some fun as well but hey ho. It wasn't all shiny and gold, but I felt it made me stronger. This kind of 'men? what men?' approach to life has its dividends, but in talking to some of my friends recently (approaching 40s or in early 40s) some have wondered whether this perspective on life contributed to them not settling down and having children, which many of them are quite desperate to do now, and soon will find it fairly challenging to do. It contributed to our backbone, but also I think, made us fairly inflexible at times. Not all of us adjusted to the world as it really is, which calls for so many compromises from women (this is not a feminist world, after all. If we all stick to our very feminist ways of life - if we have them, or whatever you might call feminism - we often find ourselves shut out from things that it is very human to want and to feel a need for). I'm writing this with three children around my knees, so bear with my warbling.
About the sexualisation. I don't really have a problem with it in its pure form. I'm Caribbean and I'm well aware that our histories or entertainment and music have historically been quite revealing. I loved listening to this podcast on the history of carnival www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p08pnvhs .I've long known that Caribbean people were jumping up in the streets half naked for decades. It's also quite natural to want to see naked bodies and celebrate them.
I DO have a problem with how money corrupts all of this, as per usual. Money flows towards women skinning out and bearing their all. I doubt these artists would be performing in the way they are if the money were the same whether they did it or not. Nikki Minaj and Cardi B might be jumping up half naked in etc streets and doing their thing, but they old not perform the way that they are. And, we all know it is not black people controlling that flow of money, so there is certainly an element of manipulation and exploitation there. Female artists who don't do that don't make as much, end of. For a long long time I saw a LOT of Beyonce's body everywhere. I knew the pre-baby contours of her body very well, and I was never a huge fan, one could hardly escape it.
Unfortunately we just can't know how much these female artists want to do this, or how much they feel compelled to by whatever forces are at play there.
My children won't be able to avoid it, so I'm going to engage with them to have critical thoughts about it all. If they make being sexually attractive, appealing, performative central in their lives, they'll have problems unless they are being paid handsomely for it, which is unlikely. I won't teach them that an open approach to sex is bad, because its not, I want them to have happy sex lives (from the age of 25 onwards in a long term private relationship haaa haaa haaaaa).