Ugh, poor StayFrosty - what a miserable day. I would have been weeping in the road if it were me, too. Did the osteo make a difference with the SPD?
My drip/epidural situation last time was, I hope, unusual. My doctor told me she would have the nurses start the pitocin drip, but that she was going home for a rest and would be back in plenty of time for the main event. In the meantime, the doctor on duty was in charge. Said duty obstetrician was a bit younger than me and 8.5 months pregnant herself. The drip was started, within an hour I was begging, BEGGING for the epidural, and the duty doctor said nastily, 'You're going to have to wait till the pain is a lot more unbearable for that.' Neither my husband nor I had been through labour before, so we didn't realise how totally out of line the doctor was.
Eventually the nurses took pity, chased down the anesthetist for me, and I got my lovely lovely epidural. By the time my own doctor came back, I was too distracted to mention it, but when I brought it up at my post-natal checkup my doctor was horrified and asked me to write a letter to the hospital about it, as denying an epidural to a woman on a pitocin drip (or any woman who asked for one in a situation where it wasn't clearly impossible) was totally against the hospital policy.
I expect the duty doctor was, in some weird way, projecting what she wanted for her own birth onto me. And who knows who else. My letter to the hospital was a furious work of art, if I do say so myself.
Anyway. V annoyed by the predicted heat tomorrow, am sweaty enough as it is. hmph.