ok, i'm going to ask the good people of freecycle for a new tank for him. but allow him his solitude.
it's gone all lovely and sunny in the last 5 mins. does look spring like out there. must let it permeate my soul and make me smile.
the only nadrew experiences i've had are two unrequited love affairs . the first when i was nine and so was he. The second many years later, a different andrew who was married, and luckily we were too righteous and respectful of each other to ever entertain our own feelings or fully acknowledge the others .