Have to have a rant and find out if this is normal. I am 11 weeks pg (tomorrow) and am disgusted to find in Swindon that midwives don't book in until 12 weeks and dating scans aren't done until 14 weeks. My last pregnancy, in Staffordshire I was booked in at 10 weeks and had my first scan at 12. Firstly, why are women being left so alone at this most vulneralble and frightening part of their pregnancy when what they actually need is some reassurance. And secondly how cynical to arrange their care plan to make people pay for something that should be available on the NHS!! My scan appointment said on the bottom 'if you are having a private nuchal translucency scan then please cancel this appointment as the date will have been confirmed'. So by not offering a nuchal scan and waiting until 14 weeks (nuchals must be done by 13weeks+6days) they have 'means tested' a whole lot of older mums who can find the money to pay privately. As far as I am concerned it is none of their business if I choose to pay privately for additional screening and if I want to have a scan every week for reassurance then I should be allowed (on the NHS, which me, my husband and my father have been paying into for the past 50 years)
Am I being fair or just hormonal?