Hello everyone,
I am a secondary school teacher, I am 16+2 pregnant, and I have a situation at school my my HoD:
Right when I found out I was pregnant, back in May, I decided to tell her -just her- as I didn't know back then if I was going to have bad nausea and if I was going to be missing school some days because if this. Her reaction was not exactly what I was expecting.... She asked me when was I going to be due, if I told someone at school already; she asked me not to tell anyone yet as they would start saying how convenient was for me to get pregnant now that I have been promoted. She said that the best thing to do was to start telling people, including the head teacher, only when I started showing.
Well, the time has come. We are back at school after the summer holiday and I am showing already. When she saw me the first day, she asked me again if anybody else knew. When I said no, she said: Oh good, keep it like that. Don't say anything yet to anyone, because you don't want the SLT to change your timetable, plus in the department, they will start talking. Wait until we come back from half term -beginning of November.
My question now is: can she actually do this? Is this legal? Don't have I the right to tell people, including the head teacher, when I think it is more convenient?
I forgot to say that she is also a union rep, which makes everything even more shocking...
Please, if anyone could give me some advice on what to do? It would be much appreciated.
Thank you very much,
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BelJos · 05/09/2021 09:31
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