My friend is having a baby and is in the middle of organising a baby shower. She sent me a list of things that she needs and is requesting that guests buy things off this list. Another suggestion was that everyone donates a small amount of money and then she could use this towards items of her preference. Last week my friend bought my pregnant friend a outfit for the baby and she remarked that “ it was ugly” before sending my friend clothing items of her choice which are more expensive. I have money to buy my friends baby a gift, is it bad for me to tell my pregnant friend that I think she is being a little unreasonable with the list and that she should probably be thankful for the gifts she receives?