Hi everyone, sorry in advance for the babbling...
I've got PCOS and endometriosis and during some surgery in September was told I also had a blockage in my right tube and it was time to think about IVF.
I had a dye test in March which showed that the blockage wasn't' as bad as had been made out by the other hospital and since then I have been waiting for a follow up appointment on the assumption that I would be able to go back on clomid after trying it for 4 months early last year.
I've done a test tonight, not in a million years expecting a positive but it says I am 3+ weeks!!!! I can't believe it! Husband is very calm and trying to contain me as we have been told my chances of ectopic and misscarriage are higher than normal.
I haven't even been trying to get pregnant these last few months, I've been letting my hair down and enjoying lots of drinky things as a last hurrah before starting the clomid so I'm now worrying that I could have done some damage?
Another thing is I turn 30 on Friday and my friends have various things planned for me, and I'm maid of honour next Friday. I don't know how I am going to put people off the scent when I'm not drinking. I don't want to tell everyone until 12 weeks?
I don't know where to start with any of this, all this time trying and crying that it would never happen and then it does! x