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Little Diddle's Finally here!!!

46 replies

diddle · 27/06/2006 15:48

Well what a long wait it has been!

This birth announcement is going to be mega.

Right, I went into hospital on Tuesday last week, for induction as i was 12 days overdue.
They gave me a prostin pessary at tea time and eft me to see if anything happened. I was due to have another 6 hours later, but they decided as they had limited staff that they would wait until the morning to try the next one, if needed.
I got a few pains, back ache etc about 5 hours after the 1st pessary. they got more intense, but not major strong pains. contractions started at 10.30pm coming every 5 minutes, then a couple of hours later were coming every 3 mins and then 2 mins, but the pain was bearable.
I got them to attach my tens machine, in preperation for it getting worse.
I tried to keep active as i knew sitting or lying on the bed would more than likely slow it all down, and although i'd need my energy i didn't want to stop the progress. I paced the corridors until the early hours, then a midwife told me i should go and sit on the bed and save my energy.
I did that and tried to doze between by 2 minute contractions, with not much luck.

By day break they had eased off and started going away again, unfortunately.

So after waiting until after lunch to be assessed again we found i was still only 1cm and the cervix was posterior still. I wasn't impressed, i though i was on my way.
So i had the 2nd dose of prostin then, that evening i had stronger pains and contractions but they weren't particularly regular. Painful enough to make me need painkillers and bring tears to my eyes.

So i was awake again all night with major pains for the 2nd night running. I had a dose of pethidine to take the egde off and to make me sleep a bit, it did the trick and i had a few hours rest.
When morning came (Thursday) they had died away again.
We then waited all day to be examined again, it was tea time before anyone was free to see us. They checked again and I was still 1cm dilated and posterior. You can't imagine how annoyed and upset i was. Baby was now 14 days overdue!!! and id waited long enough.
They told me that they could try and break my waters, which may not be possible because i wasn't very dilated and it would be painful and hard to reach, but they were willing to try, if they did that then i would be left for another 4 hours minimum to see if labour started naturally, and if it didn't then i would go onto a drip to start contractions.
My other option was to try a 3rd pessary.
and the ultimate option at the end of all that was for a c-section.
I had no faith in another pessary working, and just wanted to see my baby. My biggest fear was having no energy left for labour and after 2 nights of no sleep I was already exhausted.
I made the decision that rather than having another possible night of no sleep and energy wasting contractions, caused by either the pessary or the waters breaking, and going into labour, not copeing and having an emergency c-section. I requested to have an elective section.
After much deliberation with the midwives and doctor, they agreed the procedure but also told us that we wouldn't be able to have it until the next day.
So Little Joshua was born on Friday 23rd June 2006 weighing a very healthy 8lb 15 1/2.
He is absolutely perfect, we can't stop looking at him, he's our little miracle.

Came home sunday and we're taking it easy, feeding well.

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Jenswish · 27/06/2006 15:56

Congratulations Diddle.
Cant believe 9 months (plus) have gone.

Hope you and little Joshua have a great life together!

CONGRATULATIONS again

Marina · 27/06/2006 15:57

Congratulations diddle, so pleased all went well. Welcome to Mumsnet Joshua

Lemmingswife · 27/06/2006 15:58

Congratulations.

ScoobyDooooo · 27/06/2006 15:58

Congratulations diddle weldone & welcome to babe joshua

WellKnownMemorablePeachyClair · 27/06/2006 16:03

Blimey- sounds a lot like my secong delivery, not late but the sleepless nights of unproductive contractions. good on you for making a decision right for you, and congrats on the little one. best wishes X

podglet · 27/06/2006 16:18

hurrah congrats diddle - although it sounds like a long, drawn out affair!

A big welcome to little Joshua

BigHotMama · 27/06/2006 16:31

Congratulations Diddle and welcome finally to baby Joshua! Sounds like he was nice and snug in your womb and didnt want to come out bless! Glad your both ok! Enjoy every moment chick x x

FN · 27/06/2006 16:57

Fantastic News and CONGRATULATIONS Diddle and Mr Diddle, well done and welcome to Joshua

xxx

666mummy · 27/06/2006 17:11

congratulations. sounds similar to my experience,would you do it all again???

Mitchell81 · 27/06/2006 17:19

Congratulations Diddle and welcome baby Joshua.

CantSleepWontSleep · 27/06/2006 17:40

Taking it easy - how on earth are you managing that with a new baby?!?!

Massive congratulations to you and DH, and welcome Joshua.

Tabs xx

diddle · 27/06/2006 18:31

666mummy - i'd do it again in an instant. He's well worth all the waiting and the pain.

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BEKsmum · 27/06/2006 18:45

Congratulations Diddle & Mr Diddle you must be so proud of yourselves. Joshua sounds adorable and welcome to the boys club - your lives will never be the same again.

I'm sure he will bring you a life time of happiness, enjoy him to the full and shout out if you need advice or help every new mum does whether she admits it or not

Love and best wishes BEKsmum

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pepperpots · 27/06/2006 19:44

Well done hunny! I wish you, mr diddle and Joshua all the love, luck and happiness in the world xx

You did it hun....

Laura032004 · 27/06/2006 19:47

Congratulations Diddle

Glad that you got there in the end! Welcome to the world baby Joshua

LilacWine · 27/06/2006 20:13

BIG CONGRATULATIONS!!! i am so happy for you!

(and he was born on my DD's birthday! )

oinker · 27/06/2006 20:32

Well done you two.

Can't wait for the pictures. xx

SpaceCadet · 27/06/2006 20:35

what wonderful news!, i remember you from the ttc threads.
congratulations

petunia · 27/06/2006 21:32

Congratulations diddle on the arrival of little Joshua.

Rodeo · 27/06/2006 21:49

Fab news Diddle! Massive Congratulations!!
Welcome to baby Joshua, lovely name Cherish these early baby days - they go so fast!

Xena · 27/06/2006 21:54

Diddle I'm so happy for you what a long journey we have been on. A big welcome to Joshua and maybe we'll meet him inr one day xxxxx

666mummy · 27/06/2006 21:56

any ladies on here whos just had a baby finding it hard work!?!?
would everybody do it again!?!?

Frizbe · 27/06/2006 22:12

Congrats

spub · 27/06/2006 22:20

Diddle, my chickadee.
Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo hugely pleased and happy for you. It's been a long time coming and it's wonderful that you now have your baby in your arms.
Enjoy, enjoy.
Lots of love and happiness to you all.

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