Hey girls
I hav suffered from blighted ovum pregnancies twice in the past year. Its not a nice feeling. I knew something was "wrong" wen my usually sensitive breasts were no longer sensitive. Also, i gained more energy and as prenancy hormones began to drop, i no longer "felt pregnant".
Then the party started(!). I was not told at the scan that i had a blighted ovum. I only managed to find out by sneaking a peek at my medical notes. I was only told by my nurse that the pregnancy was not viable, so continuing it was not an option. The next day i was given a tablet to detach the pregnancy from the uterus (the first of the RU486 tabs). Because my hormone levels had already begun to drop, this tablet caused me to start bleeding that night. Thats wen the horror started.
I experienced labour-pain style cramps which were horrendous. I was due to take the remaining tablets the next day. Because the pain was so horrific, I went to see the emergency doctor, who prescribed synthetic morphine. This just took a bit of the edge off the pain. The next day i was given four tablets vaginally. I couldn't imagine myself to be in any more pain that i was already in, but boy was i mistaken. It took me four hours to pass the pregnancy. The contractions intensified until everything was out. I had to collect it in a cardboard bowl so that the nurse could ensure that i had passed everything. To my horror, i had passed TWO fetal sacs. The nurse quickly took the bowl away, hoping that i hadnt noticed. I overheard the nurse saying "there are two in there". My heart sank.
The pain continued for a while, but nowhere near as intense. i found that if i walked about more, the bleeding became heavier. If you are prone to heavy bleeding, i'd advise you to stay in bed for a while.
Not all women will experience this level of pain. My first pregnancy was also a B/O, but that just felt like a bad period pain.
It depends on how far you are in ur preg. With the first preg i was just 3 weeks gone. The last one i was almost nine weeks gone, which is the absolute maximum eligibility for a medical abortion.
The further along u are, the more ur cervix needs to dilate in order to let the pregnancy out.
Last but not least - DON'T be hard on urself girl.. this is not ur fault. This is nature's way of doing things for the best.
May you all have lovely happy healthy babies. HUGSSSSS x x x