Went down to Dad's yesterday, he hasn't been well since the radiotherepy.
He was drowsy all day and had a tough night and this morning I called the gp at lunchtime as i wasn't happy, he was still very drowsy and had not wee'd since 9pm. He was also looking yellow.
GP came out and the gp wasn't happy so he organised an ambulance, at 12.30 they called and said it would be with us in a 2 hour window.
Dad was having cramps and we sat and cuddled, the ambulance came at 14.20 and when they attached the finger monitor he only had oxygen levels at 78% :(
So i stayed at the house and got the cat in and off i went.
I get to the medical admissions unit and am told he's in A&E, [red flag #1] so down i go and when the receptionist hears who i'm looking for she escorts me to the relatives roomm [red flag #2] and after some minutes in come a dr & a nurse.
It seems Dad was comfortable and as they were doing their bits he simple stopped breathing and his heart stopped.
I got to go and say good bye to him.
I called dh and sent out some texts and then went back to his house, crated the cat, informed the 2 neighbours and after picking up a few things i really wanted and come home with crying cat snuggled in my hoodie as she was very distressed in the crate.
Dh had dinner ready and cat is currently missing in the lounge, do you think we can see her!!
I am doing ok, Dada is in a happy, pain free place and for that i'm glad.
Tomorrow i will collect death cert and register his death.
I will then start on the organising of crem for next week.