Hi, I am new to this site but I have belonged to Bounty for a long time. I just wanted to find another site really to find out or find other mum's who have lost their children. I buried my daughter on Friday. She was the smallest baby born in the hospital that they have ever had and potentially the smallest in Wales. She was 14 ounces (410 gramms) born, we have been through hell the last 6 months, we had 3 discharge dates, all of which never came to light and she was last due home on Easter Monday but fell ill with E-Coli and Pneumonia the Monday before, she was then put on Life Support and eventually the docs advised us that the treatment wasn't working so we decided to turn the vent off, although in the end it wasn't us that did it, our daughter pulled it out but because we decided to not let her suffer anymore they didn't put another one in, they put her in my arms on 14th April and she passed away almost immediately, we were devastated especially as they thought she would have lasted a few more days just on plain oxygen tubes, so it was a shock but kind of a relief as it just proved how very ill she was. She was 8lb 7oz and 6 months 6 days old. Hopefully I'll get to chat to some of you about this and it would be lovely to make new friends at such a distressing time. All my love, Amber xxx