Just needed a place to vent...
My grandad died in Oct 09. I just can't get over it. We are all a really close family and it was just such a blow, I've never had anyone close to me die before, so i don't know how to react?
He had lung cancer and it spread, which was awful as he didn't smoke or anything. He went downhill fast and it was like he didn't know what was going on around him, seeing things in the room, talking to his mum. Everyone took it in turns to stay over to help my gran at nights, so she could get sleep. I couldn't do it when i was there, i left my mum to do it while i sat downstairs, i couldn't see him like that.
When he died everyone went to see him that night. Even my cousin who is only 8 went to say goodbye, both in the house & funeral home.
I didn't. It feels like the biggest regret of my life.
I miss him.
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Ghostsinthesnow · 10/03/2010 12:27
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