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controlling pain over time

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sarah876 · 07/02/2010 21:07

Its been 2 1/2 years since my husband was killed. We weren't together when he died but I still loved him dearly and wished our life together had not been filled with the trouble it sometimes had. We left on not so good terms. I miss him so much. I've learnt to get on with life without the constant pain niggling inside, now I choose my moments to be sad....have my quite time, listen to music and let the terrible sadness i feel inside remind me that I would love to see he's face again and have that hug i miss so much. The pain never lessens but I now choose when I want the sadness to come.
I miss you Dan and this is my time to remember you x

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Shitemum · 07/02/2010 21:16

So sorry for your loss, didn't want your post to go unanswered.

sarah876 · 07/02/2010 21:48

Thank you Shiteman,

When you can't say what you want to say to the person you want to say it to writing little things like this just helps x

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