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Enquiry into Bo's death

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bubble99 · 29/04/2005 23:32

We met today with the cosultant obs. who is in charge of reviewing our case and, by coincidence, was our 'named' consultant and The Head of Maternity Services. The meeting lasted for two and a half hours and it was horrible to have to re-live the whole experience again in detail.

The post mortem results showed that there was nothing wrong at all with Bo. He was a healthy 7lb7oz baby boy who had grown well.

The MW at our booking appt. had written at the end of her entry "Needs consultant appointment" addressed seemingly to no one in particular, she obviously couldn't be arsed to make it herself and despite my GP writing and requesting an appointment it eventually fell to me to make the appointment. Fine for a reasonably intelligent, medically aware person like me, but not so fine if I'd happened to be someone who couldn't speak English and/or didn't realise the need to see a consultant.

We'd been booked into the diary by the MW at the antenatal clinic for induction on the evening of the 16th February but this had not been passed on to the maternity unit. We phoned as requested at 5pm on the 16th to check that there was a bed available. We did and were told that there were no beds on the antenatal ward but to come in at 8.30pm anyway. When we arrived we were put in a room on the postnatal unit. Those investigating had been told by the staff that they had 3 beds available on the AN ward but that they'd put me in a single room elsewhere because I had shoulder pain and they thought I'd be more comfortable there. Absolute crap as I hadn't mentioned my shoulder pain when I'd phoned earlier and they only knew about it when I arrived at the hospital.

The entire unit was so short staffed that evening that they'd had to close the active birth ward and four antenatal beds. This information was not volunteered and only given today when I asked a direct question.

Up until two years ago the maternity unit had a 'bleep holder', a senior midwife who's role was to coordinate and be aware of potentially difficult inductions such as mine. This post was dropped as the bleep holder was supernumerary and could not be incorporated into staffing numbers. The bleep is now held by a midwife who is probably up to her eyes trying to run her own (short-staffed) area.

There was a total breakdown in communication, we should have been moved to the labour ward for immediate induction within an hour of admission, not seven hours later. The labour ward was full as there were insufficient staff to move those mothers and babies ready to go to the post natal ward.

My notes were full of references to my shoulder pain (which was acknowledged to be muscular and not a life threatening pulmonary embolism within two hours). No plan of action made for delivery of the increasingly distressed twins.

The CTG traces had been picking up the same twin for two and a half hours and this had not been recognised. The attempt at vaginal delivery was apparently the right course of action as they wanted to attach fetal scalp monitoring and see if there was meconium in the amniotic fluid. Mr Bubble pointed out that at this point twin 2 was really struggling and they could not break his waters anyway. They maintain that the babies' tachycardias(fast pulse rates) were not cause for concern in themselves as they were respondant to my pulse rate which was at that time fast. No kidding.

A consultant anaesthetist arrived at this point during the meeting and told me that the attempts at spinal anaesthesia had been abandoned on the direction of the obstetrician who performed my CS. To this I replied, and it was the only time I swore, that if so they must have been f*g telepathic because at that point there was total silence in theatre and that it was me who'd insisted on the general anaesthetic. He decided then that maybe after I'd said it the obs. nodded her head to agree. WTF

Not one MW or doctor thought to check that the consultant had been informed of the deteriorating clinical situation.

I was flat on my back for 30 minutes while they tried and failed to intubate me. This caused hypoxia in me as my lungs couldn't fully inflate. The blood supply to the placenta was also severely restricted. The respiratory depressing anaesthetic agents had been crossing the placenta for too long before a succesful intubation was achieved and it was the combination of these things that killed Bo.

We now await the full report in writing and will discuss the proposed actions/policy changes in detail at our next meeting.

BTW. We were told that the whole case was also being reviewed by 'The Clinical Governance Facilitator'(sp) WTF. How much is he/she on? No money to pay MW's a liveable on salary but enough for yet another 9-5 bod to mop up the piles of poo that understaffing causes

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jangus · 30/04/2005 12:17

Bubble... I feel so sad, sorry and angry for you.
I'm thinking of you and yours.
jangus xx

hunkermunker · 30/04/2005 13:23

Bubble, you are so brave and strong. I wish there was something useful I could do to help, but I can only offer hugs. If there is ever anything, do not hesitate to ask.

WIth much love to you all xxxxxxxxxxx

piffle · 30/04/2005 13:43

I could not even hope to express how livid I am on your behalf, this is shameful and for themnot to take responsibility is disgusting.
I am so sorry it has been such a hopeless meeting, I do really hope you get some answers, admissions, full and frank transparency and some secure hope that in the future this will never happen again.
Hugs you have been amazing throughout all of this.

Gobbledigook · 30/04/2005 14:00

Just wanted to say I'm thinking of you Bubble.

I'm very, very on your behalf. It's just unforgivable the way you have been treated...disgusting.

bran · 30/04/2005 14:27

Bubble, I'm so sorry, I can't even begin to imagine how awful this whole thing is for you and your family.

donnie · 30/04/2005 16:02

this is so sad and upsetting. I really hope you get some answers here xxxxxx

Willow2 · 30/04/2005 17:13

Bubble - I am sorry they are being such absolute fuckers to you. I think you should get legal advice - you can bet your arse that they have already sought an opinion - and go in there with an expert next time. Then let's see them try to flannel you.

motherinferior · 30/04/2005 17:55

Back-covering lying bastards.

Get all the advice you can and we'll all rip them to shreds. Seriously.

uwila · 30/04/2005 18:04

Bubble, you are my hero. A tower of strength not often displayed in the human race. Best of luck with the rest of this horrid journey and may little Bo rest in peace knowing how much he meant to you and mr. Bubble.

This is all makes me so very and but I know not what more I could say that others haven't already said (better than I ever could).

mears · 30/04/2005 18:09

It is absolutely OK to CAT me Bubble.

milge · 30/04/2005 18:12

Outrageous.

hellomama · 30/04/2005 18:22
Sad
SleepyJess · 30/04/2005 18:51

(((((((((((((Bubble & family)))))))))))))))

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

franke · 30/04/2005 19:18

This is completely shameful and a callous and cynical way to treat grieving parents. Bubble, I'm so sorry.

cupcakes · 30/04/2005 19:33

I'm so sorry to see how they are progressing with this. It's thoroughly shameful. I am shocked that the hospital failed you so terribly and cannot take responsibility for it.
I am disgusted by them.
Much sympathy to you and Mr Bubble.

zippy539 · 30/04/2005 19:50

Oh Bubble - I can't think of anything to say. How horrible. I hope something positive comes out of all this heartbreak. Thinking of all of you.

bosscat · 30/04/2005 19:59

This is just so typically par for the course though isn't it? they fuck up and yet are defensive with you. Its an outrageous way to behave but it doesn't suprise me in the least. I am so sorry Bubble, words can't express how awful it must be for you. Don't give up, keep fighting for your explanation. Don't let them get away with it. Have you got a lawyer, you need someone with medical negligence experience to advise you.

milward · 30/04/2005 20:28

Bubble99 - what a difficult experience. I have so much respect for you & family going through this. The way they didn't give a full & frank discussion is truely appalling - like a case of trying to save themselves. I know that you don't want compensation - but I feel so angry for you & want to say go for everything you can get. Seems this is the only way you'll get all the answers & actions required.

Mosschops30 · 30/04/2005 20:35

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nailpolish · 30/04/2005 20:49

have just read your thread bubble and feel so humble to your strenght of character. you go girl, they wont know whats hit them

massive hugs to your lovely family.

Spacecadet · 30/04/2005 21:06

oh bubble im so sorry to read about your meeting, the hospital was so obviously negligent and are desperately trying to cover their tracks. your care from the outset was disgusting, you should have seen a consultant at your booking in visit as a twin preg is classed as aspecial care preg. I know when i was preg with dd2 i had to arrange my own consultant appt because the gp didnt do it and my scan appt went "missing".you should not have been admitted onto a post natal ward and infact in view of the nature of your preg(twin) means you should have really been admitted onto the labour ward direct. its a sad fact that wards do close because of inadequate staffing, its quite often decided that it issafer to close those beds than to comprimise patients safety but it seems that it hadthereverse effect on you and that the staffing probs on the day had a "knock on" effect as far as your care was concerned. the consultant anaesthetist was completely negligent, one would assume that a cons of that criteria would be well aware of the procedure for adminestering an anaesthetic during c-section inc how to correctly manage failed incubation without compromising the mother or babies. to be told that your son was healthy and need not have died must a bloody kick in the teeth. dont let them cover their tracks, drag their butts along the ground until they finally admit their mistake, its bad enough that its happened to you, but it must never happen again. I love my job most of the time, but have seen patient care suffer due to severe staffing probs(and whispers...i have seen junior doctors make mistakes that the f grade on duty has had to bring their attention too)there was still no excuse for what happened to you , i dont know what else to say except dont give up in your fight for the truth...{{{hugs}}}

sweetkitty · 30/04/2005 21:21

bubble I cannot express how angry I feel for you and your family, just after you lost Bo one of my closest friends lost her baby also due to medical negligence, it astounds me things like happen in this day and age. I know people are human and make errors but sometimes there are too many errors made by too many people. My friends case is going to a Crown Court investigation now as all tests have came back showing her baby was healthy until delivery.

I cannot find the words to express the sorrow and anger I feel for you, I hope it can become easier for you in time.

hub2dee · 30/04/2005 23:50

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Just to let everyone know that bubble99 has started a couple of relevant threads you may want to look at.

In this thread she posts some reflections on how the meeting went, and clarifies a few points.

This sets the background to another thread here , where she discusses her campaign to highlight midwifery understaffing, particularly in London, where the rents are so high.

Do have a read.

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