Hi Melanie75,
Thanks for your message-I don't mind answering any questions at all!
My ectopic was in 2002,so my exact memory of events may be a bit hazy.I think the discharge started just after the time my period was due & I remember thinking that it wasn't a 'proper' period.After a week,I decided to do a pregnancy test & was shockedbut over the moon when it came up positive.Iwent to my GP & mentioned the discharge,but as it is common to spot whilst pregnant & I had no pain,we both decided to just keep an eye on things.
A week later,I had to come home from work with horrible period like pains & more discharge.My GP was worried that I was miscarrying,took an Hcg blood test, booked me in for a scan on the following week & told me to rest up over the weekend.Over the weekend,the discharge had stopped & the pain had gone.So I went for my scan thinking that everything would be fine.
It wasn't,the scanner couldn't find anything in my womb & said that I'd either gotten my dates wrong or it was ectopic.They did another bloodtest to check my HCG levels & they were far too low for a normal pregnancy.I was called back into hospital that night & operated on the next day.They did a laparoscopy,so I only had a tiny scar,a centimetre long,but sadly,the baby was in my right tube.The surgeon said that it was only 0.5cm big,so he was able to remove it without damaging my tube.I was devastated,as was my DH,but he was glad that I was still alive,he knew how serious it can be.
I was able to leave hospital the next day & had to go back to have another blood test to check that my HCG levels were dropping & that was basically it.My GP was shocked that I'd had an ectopic,as apparently they only occur in 1 in a 100 pregnancies,but sadly,they do appear to be more common these days.I had no history of pelvic infections or anything that can cause ectopics,it was just bad luck.
We were very very lucky in that I managed to keep both my tubes & even more lucky that I got pregnant again just 7 wks later & had a beautiful baby girl.I am now pregnant again & due in 7wks time,so having an ectopic pregnancy doesn't always mean reduced fertility.
I will admit that losing that baby was the most awful thing that had ever happened to me & I will never forget the date that I had the op or the date it would have been due,if everything had been ok.I got a lot of support from the Ectopic pregnancy website & made some very good friends there.
I will keep everthing crossed for you.As mummytosteven says,you can have bleeding & go on to have a perfectly healthy baby.I did with my daughter & I bled with my current pregnancy too-so it isn't always bad news.If you would like to CAT me to ask anything else,please do & please let us know how you get on.
Will be thinking of you over the next few days