Sadness at loss of friend

[Judepol]

My friend passed away a few weeks ago. They were a kind and sensitive person but had toxic people in their life whose situations made life difficult for my friend. I believe the stress had a major impact on their health. I just feel so sad my friend had to endure this negativity and toxicity, it is haunting me. How can I let go and not let it affect me?

Hi @judepol,I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. Clearly not everyone in their life was toxic as you sound lovely and caring. Perhaps you could write her a letter telling her how you feel? Sounds daft but it might help you process your feelings a bit. Take care 🌷

Sorry I don't have any advice but just wanted to say I am so very sorry for your loss. You sound like a wonderful friend. Would you like to talk about your friend? You can DM me if you don't want to talk here. Take care

Sorry for your loss. I lost a very close friend in March, and she also had some toxic people in her life. And i’ve had to get to know one of them as i’ve been helping her clear her mums flat. I’ve realised relationships are complex, and always two sides. It’s been hard learning to live without my friend as I saw a lot of her and she was a big support to me (and me to her).