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It's two years tomorrow

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2018SoFarSoGreat · 11/03/2025 00:13

I don't know why I'm posting but despite some horrendous posters and cruel trolling, MN got me through the worst days of my life.

It's two years tomorrow since my daughter Claire died. I'm still in a fog, and not quite believing it, but it's true. She was my first born, my Clarabelle, and I miss her so. Her partners and her cat miss her. Her brother and nephews miss her. Her dad misses her. I miss her.

Sleep well, my girl.

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2018SoFarSoGreat · 11/03/2025 00:15

Ffs, partner. Not plural!

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ABananaADay · 11/03/2025 00:17

2018SoFarSoGreat · 11/03/2025 00:13

I don't know why I'm posting but despite some horrendous posters and cruel trolling, MN got me through the worst days of my life.

It's two years tomorrow since my daughter Claire died. I'm still in a fog, and not quite believing it, but it's true. She was my first born, my Clarabelle, and I miss her so. Her partners and her cat miss her. Her brother and nephews miss her. Her dad misses her. I miss her.

Sleep well, my girl.

So sorry to hear of your loss 😞 Sending lots of love and strength to you and your family xx

farmlife2 · 11/03/2025 00:17

I'm so sorry. I too lost a daughter. It's a long and hard journey and two years in is still very early.

I've often heard it said the first 2 years are the hardest, so it hope it starts to get easier for you. You never forget, you just learn to live with it.

Take care of yourself today. x

CottonCandyLand · 11/03/2025 04:26

I remember your posts back then. It was awful the lengths people went to, to,try and discredit you.
I hope you find peace.

2018SoFarSoGreat · 11/03/2025 15:49

@farmlife2 I'm so very sorry for your loss too, it is the hardest loss.

@CottonCandyLand thank you. Horrid, but the hundreds of posters who were so kind make up for all of that, although it still hurts. I have looked at the thread with flowers for Claire many times and it was the kindest, most spontaneous thing I've seen here. I'm glad it remains.

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