A close friend from years ago contacted me tonight, we have lost touch and not spoken for 3 years at least. I knew his mum was very unwell through a friend (who I also hadn't seen for ages). He rang me tonight assuming I knew she had died, his mums funeral was yesterday. He obviously wanted someone to speak to and I can't imagine what he's going through. We had a short conversation which was a bit awkward, lots of silences (I've never been great on the phone plus we haven't seen each other in ages). But if anyone can give me advise on what to do or say/not say I'd be really grateful, I want to be there for him and help.
Thankyou in advance