My 16 year DS has been in an on/ off relationship with a girl from school for several months. The girl’s dad has now been told that his illness is no longer treatable and that he has very little time left.
My son is compassionate and pretty mature for his age. He has a good network of friends. The girl, less so. From what I have heard from him she can be (understandably) erratic and emotional. We haven’t really had a chance to get to know her but he has spent time with her family. We have tried to be welcoming but she has been reluctant to meet us.
They have literally weeks ahead of them before September and A-Levels. How can I best support without overstepping? My DS isn’t the kind of lad to leave her to it when she’s in such a difficult place. He does however need to look after himself as well.