Married for 20 years, 3 DC. We have had a truck load of shit to deal with over last 4 years and gradually just stopped communicating.
No infidelity, it just felt all too much.
The divorce application was made and DC finally told a couple of weeks ago. Friends and wider family know. But it just feels so sad and DH says the same. I know we still love eachother.
We tried counselling last year but had so many other things going on I don't think either of us gave it the focus it needed.
Is it too late? Is there anything we can do? Will we have totally fucked the DC up if we try reconcile? I am so conflicted.