My lovely grandad passed away on the 22nd December and I am filled with so much regret, I didn't see since October not from lack of trying but he always seemed busy when I tried to arrange to go down there or he would forget that he promise to visit me and my LG (she is one)
Since he has passed I just feel so lonely, I have been left to arrange mostly everything, house clearance (his house is council owed) and now his funeral. I am so drained, I am still quite unwell from having my LG as I had a massive birth injury so I am useless currently and I can feel it. I am physically in pain from packing the house up (thankfully FIL and Hubby moved the items downstairs to make it easier on me)
I am one of three Executors however the other day I was accused of just getting over his death which is a lie, I just don't have time to grieve him because I am so busy trying to sort his estate, his funeral, stop family arguments, look after a toddler, work part time and also run a business on a side (which I have side-lined)
I think it is finally hitting me after seeing the house completely empty upstairs where I lived with them (they raised as me their own) that he is gone and so is my nan. I try to stay strong for my LG as I don't want her to see me break apart.
I then found out the day after the best person in my life passed away, his son (one of executer) sneaked into the house and took three bum bags with him at 8.45am and I can't even ask him about it. I know he is money obsessed as he treated my grandad like a bank! My mum just isn't interested in helping at all.
I just want to live with my LG and not come back.
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Firsttimemummy23 · 14/01/2024 19:55
Helplessandheartbroke · 21/02/2024 19:00
@TayceOnToast sorry for your loss too! I believe our lost loved ones are now our guardian angels and we will meet again
shellyleppard · 21/02/2024 19:15
Op I'm so so sorry for your loss. Right now I think you are trying to juggle so many things. You will miss him endlessly. Sending the biggest hug x don't be afraid to cry in front of your lg, its only natural to cry over losing a loved one. Sorry if that sounds patronising its not meant that way x hugs x
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