Is it wrong to not scatter a loved ones ashes because you want to keep them?
My mum always said it was up to me if she was buried or cremated and I always said I'd rather she be cremated, but never explained that this was because I would like to keep her ahses. Shortly before she died she said that she would like me to scatter her ashes in a certain place. She passed away a few years ago now, but I still can't bring myself to scatter her ashes. Is it wrong to ignore her wishes and hang on to them? I also don't like the idea of separating them so would feel even worse if I kept some and scattered the rest.