Not dreaming of my dad

[Obeythedancecommander]

Lost my dad very suddenly last April from hypoxic brain damage caused from cardiac arrest which was caused by an undiagnosed heart condition.

I think of him every day and every night I hope and pray I will see him in my dreams but I just dont dream of him. I think in this whole year since he died I have dreamt of him 2 or 3 times naximum and evey dream had been about him dying or surviving almost dying and has been really stressful.

I so desperately want to dream of him. Has anyone else found they haven't dreamt of their loved one either?

When my DM died, some 25 years ago, it took years before I dreamt about her.

My DH died some 2 years ago & I dream of him constantly & it is not often a comfort.

You can't control your dreams .

My sympathires to you for your loss.