I had a friend for over 40 years. She always put me down, she also put my son down as he was growning up. After my son died suddenly with a brain haemorhage, she said to me that she once watched a mother lying on her sons grave, that I should go to the gym with her to raise my endorphins. She told another friend that she saw my husband crying with the tears dripping down the end of his nose and falling off his chin. I'm have counselling now and doing ok, I've no contact with her now because she really made me cry even more after the death of my son. How can people be so cruel x