My DF is dying - likely today. He has advanced dementia and Parkinson's.
Me and my DM spent 7 hours yesterday by his bed watching and listening and trying to discern changes in breathing that might signal the end - it was awful. He is not conscious anymore and hasn't eaten or drunk for 28 hours. We are about to head back to the nursing home after some hours off. This morning his breathing was regular and relaxed. We don't know how long this will take :-(
We are both haunted by his face. There is nothing of him - bones and slack flesh in arms and legs, nose is just cartilage and skin, eyes are sunken right under his eyebrows, mouth open and eyes glazed over and half open. Its horrible to see and will haunt us both for a long time.
Can anyone recommend ways to stop seeing this image day and night? its not a way to remember someone is it??
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youllneedthisfish · 06/06/2022 13:42
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