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Anniversary of my husbands death
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Magdellena · 05/06/2022 13:47

I am really struggling today - it’s 9 years since my husband went to work and never came home.I usually manage ok but on the date I just remember every detail from the knock on the door from his boss and the having to tell my adult sons. I have now 2 grand daughters he has never met - I get so angry and bitter as I just see the years stretching forward - we had so many plans. I will be fine tomorrow - everyone thinks I am ok as it’s been so long but I feel so bereft and alone.

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HelpIneedsomebodywontyouplease · 05/06/2022 14:39

So sorry. It must be so hard. Sending you virtual hugs Flowers

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PatAndFrank · 05/06/2022 14:40

You could benefit from talking to your GP. Grief can take many forms but at some point you have to start living - but to do that you have to move past the anger and the unfairness that he never got to se your grandchild etc . Acceptance is a big part of being able to live again

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heldinadream · 05/06/2022 14:42

💔So sorry OP. Take care of yourself.

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GettinTrimmer · 09/06/2022 22:03

So sorry take care 💕

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