A close family member died very recently on husband's side. My husband has sorted the registrar and is going to be sorting the funeral with his sibling. I have sorted out everything else and have spent hours on the phone and filling in forms online to begin the closing down of accounts etc. I have done this to help my husband out and I really don't mind. What I do mind is that sibling has done nothing and I am feeling so selfish and resentful. Selfish because we both had this week booked off to relax and go to cinema, do a couple of jobs in the house etc and now we cant. Resentful because once again I am the one doing most of the work.
I was talking to my husband about his old family home and when it goes on the market and he quite rightly has a bit of a rant at me. Fair enough, he is grieving but I have gone into practical mode and will grieve later. But I feel such an unfeeling cow and that I am being unsupportive emotionally, even though I am supporting him emotionally too.
I know this is all garbled, but am I am awful person for feeling really cross and fed up that I am doing nearly all the work so far? There is still follow up calls to make and all the house to sort out yet.
I would do it all.again for him and family member that has passed