I would really like to help in any way that I can. I know that there’s nothing I can do to bring somebody back but anything practical aswell as offering emotional support.
I have received a phone call from oldest sons old friends mum. They were boyfriend and girlfriend for a while but were very young so nothing serious but they were good friends. They’ve not spoken for a while, no falling out but they broke up and son went off to a stem school last year.
Her mum has called to tell me that her lovely daughter passed away yesterday after contracting Covid.
I feel absolutely heartbroken for her and can’t even being to imagine the pain she must be feeling.
I will speak to my son this evening and gently let him know and be here for him but I just wonder what I can do to help the mum?
We weren’t close but were friendly and we have spent some time on the phone and she understandably sounds in complete shock. They are only 15. I feel awful that I cried on the phone. It’s just so awful and heartbreakingly painful for her.
I’ve offered her an ear and a shoulder whether she needs to cry or just wants to talk about her and told her if there’s anything practical I can do to help then I’m here.
Do I just leave it at that now?
She’s said she’d like to let me and my son know when the funeral will be but I just wish wish there was something I could do for her.