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My wondeful nan died today im in bitsb

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Fishies · 16/08/2021 19:04

Long story short my 78 year old nana had a lung condition for the last few years she has been poorly and we all knew she was dying, I only saw her on Friday and she didn't look great at all but today she's collapsed and passed im in bits life is so shit. She's had so many medicines and tests lately to help prolong her lifeeveb palliative care has only just started to come in to help.

Id like to belive shes met my grandad up there but its just uncertain. Im so worried as my aunt who lived with her was her carer and I worry about how her life will be now, she has some medical issues her self and not many friends around this area apart from my family and my parents

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ISteppedOnLego · 16/08/2021 19:17

I'm so sorry for your loss. Take things day by day and remember the times when you were happy together. I am a great believer that just before you pass a loved one comes to guide you. X

nancybotwinbloom · 16/08/2021 19:18

I'm sorry op. I didn't want to run and read.

I'm sure she's being looked after above.

You Ned to get in touch with your auntie and talk to her too.

I'm not great with words but my heart goes out to you. I o ow how it feels.

nancybotwinbloom · 19/08/2021 21:55

How you doing op xx

LawnFever · 19/08/2021 22:22

Sending lots of love, so sorry to hear you’ve lost your lovely Nan xx

Mantlemoose · 19/08/2021 22:26

I'm so sorry for your loss. I am sure she's at peace now. Check in on your auntie and remember your nan together x

Fishies · 20/08/2021 07:17

Im a mess I can't stop crying it doesn't feel real at all. Weve gone away for a few days to our caravan by the seaside it doesn't feel right but its cleared my head a bit. I can't decide whether I want to go and see her or not in the funeral home thing is if I don't ill remember seeing her on the floor when she passed

Thank you everyone for your comments

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Farevalah · 20/08/2021 07:24

Sending you deepest sympathy op on the loss of your Nan xx

No advice really, just take it one day at a time and maybe check in on your Auntie.

💐

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