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I miss him so much

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Laalmiss3 · 31/01/2021 01:09

I've just lost my granda. I feel totally lost. He was such a great man, a strong man. I'm so grateful that he was such a huge part of my life and that of my children's. I miss him so much. We just couldn't save him. We all tried our best and rushed like hell to get to him but I just wish I could have got to him sooner and not listened to his sayings that he'll be ok. I just wish so much had been different. I think if covid hadn't been here then he might not have been afraid of going in hospital. What a bastard this horrible this pandemic is! I just can't believe he's gone. We all miss his twice weekly video phonecalls. Honestly I feel in so much pain. I just wish I had got there sooner, not saying the outcome would have been better but I just wish I got there earlier x

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Laalmiss3 · 31/01/2021 01:24

I'm just really struggling at the minute to go to bed. Feeling like I don't want to even though I'm knackered. Been having a drink tonight to try and make me sleep but so far it's just making me want more drink! Anyone please have any advice?

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Fudgewhizz · 31/01/2021 01:24

I'm so sorry, OP. Losing someone is so hard. I'm sure you did everything you could, don't beat yourself up. It will get easier but it's okay to feel rubbish now.

ParkheadParadise · 31/01/2021 01:25

Sorry for your loss

Sisterlove · 31/01/2021 10:05

Sorry for your loss, but please don't blame yourself. It's not your fault at all.

It's so difficult dealing with loss of a loved one without anything else.

Take care of yourself.

Laalmiss3 · 31/01/2021 11:54

Thank you all for taking the time to reply. It's so much appreciated.

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NoProblem123 · 05/02/2021 16:58

Hope you are managing ok OP, thinking of you, take care
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