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The annual Christmas Eve 'raise a glass' thread

162 replies

cptartapp · 24/12/2020 17:53

Can't see one yet this year? To raise a glass each Christmas Eve and remember those we've lost.
To my mum and dad. Taken too soon in tragic circumstances. Still missing you both so very much.

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IHateCoronavirus · 24/12/2020 18:35

To my Beautiful little daughter your angel is at the top of our tree, and your bear is dressed in her Christmas finest. Miss you so much StarBear Merry Christmas.

SheRaTheAllPowerful · 24/12/2020 18:36

Nanny and Grandad, together again this year after more than 10 apart.

drizzleborn · 24/12/2020 18:37

To my mum who I lost 4 years ago at 60 and my dad who died just a few months ago. Both too young and both loved Xmas.

louderthan1 · 24/12/2020 18:39

To my dad Craig. Died in 1990 when I was 9. Every day I miss you. Every day I hope you'd have been proud of me. I love you.

EddieVeddersfoxymop · 24/12/2020 18:40

To my Grandma, who left us 3 years ago now, on this very night. I miss you so much, miss your wisdom and your wit. I'm sorry I couldn't get to lay flowers for you because of this bastard lockdown. As soon as I can, I will get you the biggest bunch.
And to D, who passed nearly 3 years ago too. I'll not be able to forget what you did , but I'm trying to forgive. RIP.

sleepyhead · 24/12/2020 18:42

To Elizabeth and Aileen. Lives that to the outsider may have seemed small, but who gave so much love and life, and had an enormous impact on those that knew you.

We miss you and celebrate you.

bellinisurge · 24/12/2020 18:43

Thanks for this. To my mum and dad

QuantumJump · 24/12/2020 18:44

Raising a glass to my Grandma, who loved a drop of red wine or vodka Wine

TeaLibrary · 24/12/2020 18:44

To Dad and to my grandparents. Miss you and love you more than words can say. Memories never fade and neither does the pain of losing you. Hold my beloved babies safe in your arms until the day we are reunited.

PoppyStellar · 24/12/2020 18:44

To my lovely dad. Alzheimer’s then Covid. First Christmas without him. Find myself welling up at the daftest things.

Juanbablo · 24/12/2020 18:47

To mum, died in 2003 at the age of 44 from cancer. My dad was heartbroken, my brother and I were 15 and 12 and still bear the scars. Miss you now as much as I did then Mum, love you.

To dad, died in 2017 from alcohol related illnesses. So sad and so traumatic for us all. The kindest man I knew. Love you dad.

StillGardening · 24/12/2020 18:51

To my wonderful Dad, approaching ten years without you. So glad you sat with us even briefly that last Christmas. I’ve made stuffings from your recipes, put your lights up, and it just makes me miss you more. Xx

Paddingtonthebear · 24/12/2020 18:58

To my brother who died 20yrs ago and to two friends who both died of cancer this year , all taken far too young. ❤️

CaptainCallisto · 24/12/2020 19:00

To MIL, gone far too young from cancer. It's our third Christmas without you and it still feels so strange and empty. And to Aunty Hen - the older I get, the more people tell me I'm like you. I wish I could have known you better, known you as an adult. I will always have the loveliest memories of your eccentricities Wine

HollyJollyDillydolly · 24/12/2020 19:00
Wine To my Dad who has been gone 19 years and my Nan and SIL who didn’t see the end of 2020. Star
1990shopefulftm · 24/12/2020 19:03

To Dad, grandad, nian and tiad, I wish you could have been here for our baby's 1st Christmas.

DifficultPifcultLemonDifficult · 24/12/2020 19:05

To my darling son and beautiful daughter.

Both taken far too soon.

Hopefully celebrating together somewhere. We will raise a glass and have some angel cake this year as always, remembering and missing you both every day ❤

Backwardsuptheescalator · 24/12/2020 19:09

To my little grandson. We will never know who you would have been, what your eyes looked like open. What you liked and disliked. What you were interested in. What your voice was like. I never got to meet you yet I miss you and for your mum and dad so wish you were there with them and your sisters as they leave food and drink for Santa tonight.

Harrykanesrightsock · 24/12/2020 19:09

My lovely big sister who was Mrs Christmas. Miss her always

Hendalle · 24/12/2020 19:12

Lovely thread OP, touching to read PPs.

Wine to my DDad who died in 1999 when I was 16, I miss him everyday, and hope he would be proud of the person I have grown to become, I know he would like my DH (and FIL) & he would adore my DDog Grin

And Wine to my DMIL who we lost all too soon in 2014. I wish we’d had more time to know each other, she is deeply missed by her DParents, DH, DSons, DGCS and DDILS.

And to everyone on this thread who is missing someone Wine and best wishes for Christmas and 2021.

Fuckingcrustybread · 24/12/2020 19:12

For my big brother, died in 1976 at 19, far too young. 46 years later and I still miss him.

problembottom · 24/12/2020 19:12

To my wonderful big brother taken suddenly and very unfairly this year. You will always be missed and you’ll never be forgotten.

Love to all Flowers

Colinthedaxi · 24/12/2020 19:16

My DP, five years ago (to the hour!) i was sat with a lovely Irish doctor in her sparkly Christmas jumper who told me to pray it was a mental health issue - it wasn't.

oldnormalplease · 24/12/2020 19:20

My dad, who died a little over 2 months ago. I miss him so much. Tomorrow will be tough.

foxyknoxy30 · 24/12/2020 19:23

My wee mum and dad my first without my dad and my second without my mum miss them so much thinking of everyone