Dads funeral tomorrow

[MermaidDreams83]

Just what title says, tomorrow I say goodbye to my dad for the last time. He passed away 30th July. It still doesn't feel real, I'm going to be pallbearer but if I can't do it at last minute my husband will step in. I hope I can do it.

I keep asking my dad for signs but there's nothing, if my dad could give me a sign he would so now I'm questioning everything 💔

Sorry for your loss. Don't look for a sign. One day you will see something and think that is him and that will be that.
I remember being on a long drive several months after my father passed and I was thinking about him and suddenly there was a rainbow. A sign? Coincidence? Well, I know what I wanted to believe.
One day at a time, but don't get hung up on this one thing.

Thank you, a rainbow is so lovely. Your right I am focusing on it too much, others have said leave him alone he's got lots of catching up to do with his mam and dad haha. Thank you for replying

bless you. Hope it goes as well as can be expected.
I lost my mum in June, and on the days when I've had a nice time, or feel relaxed, I like to think that was her helping me out.
Your dad will always be there. In you, around you, with you. Xx

Sorry for your loss.

I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my dad in April. I too expected a sign or something so I understand what you mean. I had so many signs when my mum died twenty years ago I expected to feel the same when I lost my dad. I agree with pp though, it will come when you least expect it, when you are not looking for it.

I’m so sorry. I buried my beloved dad two weeks ago and it doesn’t seem real.
All the best for today.

Sending hugs and best wishes for tomorrow.

It was my dad’s funeral today. Today has been hard and draining but I know he would have approved of his send off. Like you I keep hoping for a sign. Hope tomorrow goes well x

Thank you all, heading off soon I just want to keep it together and give him a good send off ❤️❤️ xx

You will ❤️ Xx

Sorry for the loss of your dad. I know how hard it is. Hope today goes well.

@MermaidDreams83
I hope today went as well as can be expected.

Please come back and share it with us.
We lost my lovely Dad mid June and I still can’t believe he’s gone.

I hope everything went as well as it could today sending love.
My Dad died Suddenly And unexpectedly last year And his funeral was a total blur to me. Just try to get thru one hour at a time. Signs will come. Might not be what you expect but you might just see the same thing over and over and you will know
Xxxx

I lost my lovely old dad in April at the beginning of lockdown. Due to restrictions we were only allowed 9 people at the graveside. Some of my friends came to pay respects as we drove by and later told me that 2 butterflies followed DF. The day previous to this when I was in the garden a butterfly landed on my hand for about 1 min which I didn't think anything about until I heard about the butterflies following DF.

The signs are sometimes there but not always obvious. I hope you get something OP and that you get a little comfort from the service

@Jakadaal
I love that story of the butterflies

A day or two after my Dad died, I took my little grandson for a walk across some fields. Two butterflies danced above our head as we crossed one field. It took us over 5 minutes and there were with us all of that time.
I do believe it was my Dad telling me that him and my brother were finally reunited.
He missed my brother (his only son) so much.
It’s was very comforting

Yesterday went as well as possible and hopefully we have him a good send off. I managed to be pallbearer and read a poem out too though took me while to finish it. Today I just feel exhausted, kids are bickering and weather Is pants today actually feels worse than yesterday which is ridiculous I know.
Love the butterfly story ❤️🙏